Friday, 26 September 2014

OLS Reflections Khamsa



OLS Reflections Khamsa by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul

  • The less we need, the happier we become.

  • Learning how to peacefully disagree is an art everyone ought to master.

  • When we smile to life, it smiles back. Sometimes not right back, but eventually it does.

  • Once we stop obsessing over what we seek, it will come to us. 

  • You are treated by others based on what you allow. 

  • There is a fine line between naivety and optimism; out of goodwill, some people tend to cross that line. 


  • For a healthy and balanced outcome, being opinionated must be paired with being informed.

  • Once you start seeing through people’s bullshit, it’s almost impossible to pretend that you can’t see.

  • Nothing is more alienating than being somewhere full of people and realising, perhaps mid-conversation, that what they talk about belongs to a totally different plane of existence than the one in which you exist.

  • Knowing what you don’t want is a significant step towards what you do want.


OLS Reflections Khamsa by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul



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Monday, 15 September 2014

OLS Reflections Vier



    OLS Reflections Vier by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul

    • The problem with black-and-white thinking is that you never get to see the rainbow.

    • As we get older, one appreciates beauty in all things more acutely. Not out of necessity, but out of recognition.




    • Your greatness lies in seeing the greatness in others, especially when they don’t see it themselves.




    • Make it a habit to find joy wherever you go and in whatever you do.




    • The secret to reaching the listening hearts lies in speaking truth in humility.




    • Transcend all bullshit, especially your own.




    • Fear of the unknown is the oldest and most destructive kind of fear. Exchange it with curiosity and see how far that will take you.




    • Everyone has a spiritual calling; seek and you shall find it.




    • They first try to convince you there is a box, then they challenge you to think outside it. The truth is, there was never a box; there is no box and there never will be. Your only limitation lies in who you think you are — your ego.




    • Follow no crowd; and the crowd may eventually follow you.
      OLS Reflections Vier by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul



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      Friday, 12 September 2014

      Poème Tragique



      Hated, ill-fated, x-rated

      Labels in society are integrated



      Two souls were isolated, segregated 

      Mon n pop were kids when they mated

      Some months later she was impregnated

      
He was miseducated, medicated, sedated 

      She was young and manipulated when she deviated

      Penetrated and fornicated
      All her short life humiliated, it never ameliorated

      Alienated, from the streets she graduated

      To hide the pain now she’s opiated, 
unconsciously intoxicated
 


      When she met him she felt exhilarated

      Thought emancipated, all her life reevaluated 

      Things between them accelerated, she stated 

      Their inner demons congregated and amalgamated
      
Unseparated, they were still kiddos, unilluminated


      ***

      

But then things got heated 
      She felt cheated, defeated
      Him, maltreated and mistreated


      ***

      Then 

one day baby was irritated and nauseated
      
constipated not vaccinated
      
dehydrated, behind the door gated 

      Mom n pop wasted till ambulated 

      And the poor baby’s life was checkmated



      Devastated and dissipated 

      Would they now be liberated or annihilated?

 






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      Wednesday, 10 September 2014

      How ‘XOXO’ Came To Mean Hugs & Kisses



      How ‘XOXO’ Came To Mean Hugs & Kisses by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul

      Have you ever wondered about
      the letters ‘X’ and ‘O’ we cutely add to our correspondence in e-mails, messages, and letters as a lovey-dovey signature? Some of us did. After doing a little research I found that no one knows for sure the exact origin, which got me even more curious. Here are some of the available speculations about those universal symbols.


      For the
      X’, it is known that in the Middle Ages when many people were unable to read or write, documents were often signed using an X. Kissing the X represented an oath to fulfill obligations specified in the document and to demonstrate sincerity. Eventually, the X and the kiss became synonymous. Once it became a sacred symbol, it came to mean “faith and fidelity.”

      Another theory suggests that
      X’ first started being used as a substitute for “Christ” by religious scholars about a millennium ago. Some said even earlier with the rise of Christianity, because this is how ultimately Xmas became an alternative for Christmas, and later Xian for Christian. However, the X’ here is not actually the English X we are familiar with, but rather the Greek letter Chi, which is the first letter in the Greek word for “Christ” represented by a symbol similar to the letter X in the modern Roman alphabet.

      What we do know according to the Oxford English Dictionary is, the first usage of Xs to mean kisses came in a letter by a priest, Gilbert White, in 1763:

      I am with many a xxxxxxx and many a Pater noster (Our Father) and Ave Maria (Hail Mary), Gil. White.

      Although it seems here that the priest may have actually meant “blessings” not “kisses”. The reason why it is believed so is that there has been no single usage of X that could mean a kiss for a whole century after that letter.

      By the mid-19th century, there were numerous references to
      X’ meaning “kiss”, such as in Aunt Judy’s Magazine which was published circa 1866-1885.

      How ‘XOXO’ Came To Mean Hugs & Kisses by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul


      As for the
      ‘O’, the origin is even more obscure.

      The most popular theory builds on the earlier theory regarding ‘X’ meaning ‘Christ’. It goes that the
      O’ is of North American descent; and when illiterate Jewish immigrants — or those who could not use Latin alphabet letters — were unable to sign their own John Hancock upon arriving to the U.S and refusing to use the customary X due to its association with the cross of Christianity. So instead, they got used to drawing a circle on documents as a signature.

      Incidentally, many etymologists believe this is how the racial slur for Jewish people “kike” came about. The Yiddish word for “circle” is kikel (pronounced KY-kul), and for “little circle” kikeleh (pronounced KY-kul-uh). Before long, the immigration inspectors were calling anyone who signed with an O in place of an X a kikel or kikeleh or kikee, then eventually and concisely, kike.

      The debut of the
      O’ for a hug took place sometime between late-19th and early-20th century. But how the X’ and the O’ got together is a bigger mystery. Some hypothesise that the children game Tic Tac Toe brought them together.
       

      Others went even further with claiming that X’ means hugs and O’ means kisses since we say “hugs and kisses”. However, X being identified with a kiss is earlier than O being identified with a hug, so this one cannot be true.

      Apart from all this distant history, the more romantic and way simpler speculation I found is that X symbolises the lips being in kissing position as two faces, while the O represents an embrace as arms hugging seen from above. 



      On a parallel note, check The Real Origin of “It Will Cost You an Arm and a Leg” for yet another historical story. 


      And now you know the whole drill. xoxo


       

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      Tuesday, 9 September 2014

      Artists Between Mindset and Motivation



      Artists Between Mindset and Motivation by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul

      From my own experience dealing with many sorts of artists those last few years, I can deduct that a significant portion of them are afraid of failure as much as they are afraid of success. Like any kind of fear, this contains and limits them. It cripples them through their artistic journey.

      The main problem with such people is that they worry too much about the outcome of their work. Be it commercialising their art, obsessing about what others will think of it or how they’ll criticize it, or perhaps because they are seeking perfection, the worry does take away from their creativity. It dulls their shine, which naturally keeps them stuck in a quagmire of unaccomplishment, frustration, and lack of motivation.


      But why is that so? And what’s the difference between those artists and others who “make it”?




      Artsy Arty Art



      Art is rebellious in nature. Apart from creativity and imagination, it’s a skill that needs guts and courage, which usually reflects on one’s lifestyle. In truth, if you have the guts to call yourself an artist, then you are one. It’s about how you perceive yourself. It’s as simple as that.

      Many of the ones I have met seemed to lack the courage. They are too shy. It feels like they are afraid to shine; like they cannot believe they will make it. And this attitude shows on their behaviour and attitude. We attract what we have in mind; and if that is fear-based, then what we’ll attract will be on the same frequency.  

      Such people may not have enough self confidence — or freedom — needed to be artists who can excel in what they do. Without shine, artists lose an essential preliminary to become stars. If one really wants to be great, he or she should stop asking for permission.

      When it comes to art, the differentiation between mindsets can sometimes be informally explained as the “starving artist” mindset and the “thriving artist” mindset (shown below). Or, as the featured infograph distinguishes; successful and unsuccessful.

      The good news is, most of our limits are self-generated. Mindsets could be fixed, and the unsuccessful can become successful by changing some habits and perceptions.

      On a parallel note, The Writing Process and the Creative Block is a more thorough exposé of mine about creativity in general and how to overcome creative blocks. Choosing Art Over Corporate and Academia is another. Then there is Some Soulful Artists Quotes.



      Artists Between Mindset and Motivation by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul


      Intrinsic and Extrinsic Motivations



      To be motivated is to be moved to do something. There is a certain inspiration that energizes the act. People have different amounts of motivation towards different things. They also have different kinds of it.

      Let us see what psychology has to say about that.


      According to the Self-Determination Theory, there is a distinction between two different types of motivations. This is not only in arts, but in every aspect of life.

      One, is the Extrinsic Motivation, which occurs when we are motivated to perform a behaviour or engage in an activity in order to earn a reward or to avoid a punishment. It is not representative of oneself; for it arises from the outside.

      The traditional emphasis on external rewards such as grades, report cards, and gold stars is indoctrinated into us since birth. Whether it’s our parents, teachers, bosses, or religion, we are constantly reminded that external rewards can induce interest and participation in something the individual may have no initial interest in.

      How many people work just for the paycheck or pray merely out of fear of going to hell? Even more so, how many kids clean their room or study or eat their vegetables so they don’t get punished? Or those who compete in a sport or a contest to win an award or scholarship? A whole lot.



      The second type is the Intrinsic Motivation. This, unlike the extrinsic, stems from within. It is self-determined. Intrinsic means it involves engaging in a behaviour because it is personally rewarding; essentially, performing an activity for its own sake rather than for some separable, external consequence like reward or pressure. Whether it involves work or play, intrinsic means motivated by inherent satisfactions such as fun, curiosity, and challenge. People with such motivation are more likely to be exposed to new ideas and to exercise new skills.


      Reading a book, playing an instrument, writing poetry, playing a sport or working on some project could all be examples of activities inspired by intrinsic motivation. They are fulfilling on their own, without the need of a reward, and definitely without the fear of punishment. Without caring too much about the outcome, the individual here is inspired from within to perform or create without the limitation that originates from extrinsic motivation. In such case, he or she has the potential to become an unstoppable force characterized by “indefatigable assiduity”.

      The freedom that comes from the intrinsic mindset usually entails high degree of individuality and originality, as well as a healthy dose of self-worth. In art, that’s a major benefit, which usually leads to standing out and possibly also to brilliance if enough hard work is achieved.


      Numerous studies have actually shown that offering excessive external rewards for an already internally rewarding behaviour can lead to a reduction in intrinsic motivation, a phenomenon known as the Overjustification Effect.

      The actual fact that a reward is expected when one performs an activity or does good can subconsciously undermine any existing intrinsic motivation that people might have. Because if I’m used to getting a reward for what I do, what would make me do it if I stop getting rewarded? Probably I won’t do it, you see, and that will not be beneficial for me and/or for others. 


      Much more on extrinsic/intrinsic motivation can be found in this contemporary psychology Paper by Richard M. Ryan and Edward L. Dec of University of Rochester. 





      Let It Shine



      Whether for play or work, humans need motivation to achieve things. Extrinsic and intrinsic motivation are both important ways of driving behaviour, yet they differ in essence as we have seen. They also vary in achieving success.

      In case of artists, some of them alternate between both mindsets. Others fully engage in their own art as a passion of the heart, not thinking of, or maybe not even desiring, external rewards. And some others, like the ones I mentioned, are stuck obsessing about results, rewards, and opinions.  

      In reality, there is not one single way to be a successful artist. But one thing is for sure, being talented isn’t enough to shine. Many people are talented and skilled, but this must be coupled with an inner will to create as well as with perseverance. I believe that’s what makes the difference between those who make it and those who remain unknown; those who are passionate and in love with what they do and those who aren’t so sure they are doing the right thing.

      My advice to those contained artists is to let go of your fears and worries. Get creative without boundaries. As you work, try to forget the reward, it will come later. Try to forget the rules. There is nothing wrong with setting goals and wanting to develop oneself, actually you must shine to succeed in this field. But, overthinking the unknown can really hinder the creative process for an artist as it restricts them and creates mental blocks.

      A true artist is here on Earth to create. Create because you want to; because it makes you feel good. Summon your muse and indulge in it. If you’re doing it solely for the reward — money, fame, women or men — then maybe this fixation is standing between you and success.



      In summation, we have to encourage all artists. For they are how we get a glimpse of others’ realities. For me personally, I see that manifestation stemming from the fire within is much more potent than if it is caused by some external stimulus or incentive. The intrinsic behaviour here emanates from one’s sense of self. I write because I must write; because it gives me pleasure, not because I get paid for it or not.

      Then again, there is no one recipe to success. We’re all different and different people have different priorities in life. Anyone, however, can rethink their choices and change their perceptions if they are seeking different results.


      Always remember, we cannot create if we are afraid to fail. And fear is usually a liar. 



      “We artists are indestructible; even in a prison, or in a concentration camp, I would be almighty in my own world of art, even if I had to paint my pictures with my wet tongue on the dusty floor of my cell.”
      ― Pablo Picasso


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      Sunday, 7 September 2014

      OLS Reflections Tre — The Mildly Unfun Ones



      OLS Reflections Tre — The Mildly Unfun Ones by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul

      As mentioned in the first article of the OLS Reflections series from 2014, the content will be divided into humorous and more serious. I hereby give you the first one in The Unfun sub-category. 

      *Edit (May 2024):

      Little did I know, ten years and 80 articles later the series and its younger jolly sibling will still be up and running. The latest is OLS Reflections 80 — The Flamboyantly Unfun Ones. 




      • Screw the social ladder. Choose to levitate.

      • 


I often think of coursing in the course of my coarse language course.

      • 


Gladitude: The outlook or stance of being pleased for being thankful.




      • He just had his first buy experience; it was Rich!

      • An orgasm a day or two keep the doctor away from you.

      • 


Naming your son ‘Gaylord’ in an English-speaking country is like naming him ‘Baheeg’ in an Arabic-speaking one.




      • The sex was so good that even the neighbours had a cigarette then took a shower.

      • 


Anyone still wondering what was the ‘that’ which Meat Loaf wouldn’t do in 1993?

      • Next time someone asks me what I do I’ll say I’m an existentialist-turned-transcendentalist. And wait for that face.




      • I’ve turned the page so many times in me life that I have a permanent paper cut on me finger.




      • Oh crap! I wrote a hard letter to Doodoo the Poo at the sewage company #2 behind the boulder by the dump, wanting to get to the bottom of things. It stinks they wouldn’t publishit at the local paper towel because it’s faecal matter. What a waste, man, oh what a waste.
        ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)


      OLS Reflections Tre — The Mildly Unfun Ones by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul

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      Friday, 5 September 2014

      Some Soulful Writing Quotes



      Some Soulful Writing Quotes by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul

      “A writer is someone for whom writing is more difficult than it is for other people.”
      ― Thomas Mann, Essays of Three Decades



      “There is nothing to writing. All you do is sit down at a typewriter and bleed.”
      Ernest Hemingway



      “We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospect.”
      Anaïs Nin



      “A writer never has a vacation. For a writer, life consists of either writing or thinking about writing.”
      ― Eugène Ionesco



      “Writing is a lonely job. Having someone who believes in you makes a lot of difference. They don’t have to make speeches. Just believing is usually enough.”
      ― Stephen King, On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft



      “A great writer reveals the truth even when he or she does not wish to.”
      Tom Bissell



      “The purpose of a writer is to keep civilization from destroying itself.”
      ― Albert Camus



      “As a writer, you should not judge, you should understand.”
      ― Ernest Hemingway



      “A good writer possesses not only his own spirit but also the spirit of his friends.”
      ― Friedrich Nietzsche



      “Writing is a socially acceptable form of schizophrenia.”
      ― E. L. Doctorow



      “If there’s a book that you want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it.”
      ― Toni Morrison



      “For a man who no longer has a homeland, writing becomes a place to live.”
      — Theodor Adorno



      “The act of writing is an integral part of my mental life; ideas emerge, are shaped, in the act of writing… a special, indispensable form of talking to myself.”
      ― Oliver Sacks



      “Don’t bend; don’t water it down; don’t try to make it logical; don’t edit your own soul according to the fashion. Rather, follow your most intense obsessions mercilessly.”
      ― Franz Kafka



      “No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader. No surprise in the writer, no surprise in the reader.”
      ― Robert Frost



      “It is not often that someone comes along who is a true friend and a good writer.”
      ― E. B. White



      “Advice? I don’t have advice. Stop aspiring and start writing. If you’re writing, you’re a writer. Write like you’re a goddamn death row inmate and the governor is out of the country and there’s no chance for a pardon. Write like you’re clinging to the edge of a cliff, white knuckles, on your last breath, and you’ve got just one last thing to say, like you’re a bird flying over us and you can see everything, and please, for God’s sake, tell us something that will save us from ourselves. Take a deep breath and tell us your deepest, darkest secret, so we can wipe our brow and know that we’re not alone. Write like you have a message from the king. Or don’t. Who knows, maybe you’re one of the lucky ones who doesn’t have to.”
      ― Alan W. Watts



      “You never have to change anything you got up in the middle of the night to write.”
      ― Saul Bellow



      “If you want to write, if you want to create, you must be the most sublime fool that God ever turned out and sent rambling. You must write every single day of your life. You must read dreadful dumb books and glorious books, and let them wrestle in beautiful fights inside your head, vulgar one moment, brilliant the next. You must lurk in libraries and climb the stacks like ladders to sniff books like perfumes and wear books like hats upon your crazy heads. I wish you a wrestling match with your Creative Muse that will last a lifetime. I wish craziness and foolishness and madness upon you. May you live with hysteria, and out of it make fine stories — science fiction or otherwise. Which finally means, may you be in love every day for the next 20,000 days. And out of that love, remake a world.”
      ― Ray Bradbury



      “Talent is extremely common. What is rare is the willingness to endure the life of the writer.”
      Kurt Vonnegut 



      “There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.”
      Maya Angelou
       
       
       
      “There are, first of all, two kinds of authors: those who write for the subject's sake, and those who write for writing's sake. [...] The truth is that when an author begins to write for the sake of covering paper, he is cheating the reader; because he writes under the pretext that he has something to say.”
      ― Arthur Schopenhauer
       
       
       
      “I write for the same reason I breathe... because if I didn’t, I would die.”
      ― Isaac Asimov 
       
       
       
      “Writing is the painting of the voice.”
      ― Voltaire  



      “What an astonishing thing a book is. It’s a flat object made from a tree with flexible parts on which are imprinted lots of funny dark squiggles. But one glance at it and you’re inside the mind of another person, maybe somebody dead for thousands of years. Across the millennia, an author is speaking clearly and silently inside your head, directly to you. Writing is perhaps the greatest of human inventions, binding together people who never knew each other, citizens of distant epochs. Books break the shackles of time. A book is proof that humans are capable of working magic.”
      ― Carl Sagan, Cosmos



      “Therefore, dear Sir, love your solitude and try to sing out with the pain it causes you. For those who are near you are far away... and this shows that the space around you is beginning to grow vast.... be happy about your growth, in which of course you can’t take anyone with you, and be gentle with those who stay behind; be confident and calm in front of them and don’t torment them with your doubts and don’t frighten them with your faith or joy, which they wouldn’t be able to comprehend. Seek out some simple and true feeling of what you have in common with them, which doesn’t necessarily have to alter when you yourself change again and again; when you see them, love life in a form that is not your own and be indulgent toward those who are growing old, who are afraid of the aloneness that you trust.... and don’t expect any understanding; but believe in a love that is being stored up for you like an inheritance, and have faith that in this love there is a strength and a blessing so large that you can travel as far as you wish without having to step outside it.”
      ― Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet



      “A writer seems to have a certain responsibility towards the reader.

      I myself write to explore my wandering thoughts and fleeting emotions. Therefore be able to cognise, ponder, and reflect, in hope to comprehend my mind and inner being a little bit better. I write to know myself. I write to keep my (in)sanity. Put more bluntly, I write because I must.

      When it comes to sharing the writings, I don’t do it to convince anyone with anything nor to prove any views. There is nothing to sell. I do it to offer the readers and the world a chance to enjoy my point of views — along with my sense of wonder, curiosity and confusion. I share so they may think for themselves; for them to question everything; for them to find their own Truth. I equally share so that those who think alike know they are not alone. For I am you and what I see is me. Not just as a reflection of humanity, as a writer or thinker, but also as a provocateur of a sort.”
      — Omar Cherif



      So You Want To Be A Writer

      “If it doesn’t come bursting out of you
      in spite of everything, don’t do it.

      Unless it comes unasked out of your
      heart and your mind and your mouth
      and your gut, don’t do it.
      If you have to sit for hours
      staring at your computer screen
      or hunched over your typewriter searching for words, 

      don’t do it.
      If you’re doing it for money or fame, 

      don’t do it.
      If you’re doing it because you want women in your bed,
      don’t do it. 

      If you have to sit there and rewrite it again and again, 

      don’t do it.
      If it’s hard work just thinking about doing it,
      don’t do it.
      If you’re trying to write like somebody else,
      forget about it.
      If you have to wait for it to roar out of you,
      then wait patiently.
      If it never does roar out of you,
      do something else.
      If you first have to read it to your wife
      or your girlfriend or your boyfriend
      or your parents or to anybody at all,
      you’re not ready.
      Don’t be like so many writers,
      don’t be like so many thousands of
      people who call themselves writers,
      don’t be dull and boring and
      pretentious, don’t be consumed with self-love.
      The libraries of the world have yawned themselves to sleep
      over your kind.
      Don’t add to that.
      Don’t do it.
      Unless it comes out of
      your soul like a rocket,
      unless being still would
      drive you to madness or
      suicide or murder, don’t do it.
      Unless the sun inside you is
      burning your gut, don’t do it.
      When it is truly time, and if you have been chosen,
      it will do it by itself and it will keep on doing it
      until you die or it dies in you.
      There is no other way.
      And there never was.”

      ― Charles Bukowski

      “Go into yourself. Find out the reason that commands you to write; see whether it has spread its roots into the very depths of your heart; confess to yourself whether you would have to die if you were forbidden to write.

      This most of all: ask yourself in the most silent hour of your night: must I write? Dig into yourself for a deep answer. And if this answer rings out in assent, if you meet this solemn question with a strong, simple “I must,” then build your life in accordance with this necessity; your whole life, even into its humblest and most indifferent hour, must become a sign and witness to this impulse. Then come close to Nature. Then, as if no one had ever tried before, try to say what you see and feel and love and lose...

      ...Describe your sorrows and desires, the thoughts that pass through your mind and your belief in some kind of beauty - describe all these with heartfelt, silent, humble sincerity and, when you express yourself, use the Things around you, the images from your dreams, and the objects that you remember. If your everyday life seems poor, don’t blame it; blame yourself; admit to yourself that you are not enough of a poet to call forth its riches; because for the creator there is not poverty and no poor, indifferent place. And even if you found yourself in some prison, whose walls let in none of the world’s sounds – wouldn’t you still have your childhood, that jewel beyond all price, that treasure house of memories? Turn your attentions to it. Try to raise up the sunken feelings of this enormous past; your personality will grow stronger, your solitude will expand and become a place where you can live in the twilight, where the noise of other people passes by, far in the distance. - And if out of this turning-within, out of this immersion in your own world, poems come, then you will not think of asking anyone whether they are good or not. Nor will you try to interest magazines in these works: for you will see them as your dear natural possession, a piece of your life, a voice from it. A work of art is good if it has arisen out of necessity. That is the only way one can judge it.”
      ― Rainer Maria Rilke



      More can be found on Some Soulful Travel Quotes, Some Soulful Artists Quotes, and the earliest OLS Favourite Quotes


      “I write because I must” — Some Soulful Writing Quotes by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul












      So You Want To Be A Writer

      if it doesn't come bursting out of you
      in spite of everything,
      don't do it.
      unless it comes unasked out of your
      heart and your mind and your mouth
      and your gut,
      don't do it.
      if you have to sit for hours
      staring at your computer screen
      or hunched over your
      typewriter
      searching for words,
      don't do it.
      if you're doing it for money or
      fame,
      don't do it.
      if you're doing it because you want
      women in your bed,
      don't do it.
      if you have to sit there and
      rewrite it again and again,
      don't do it.
      if it's hard work just thinking about doing it,
      don't do it.
      if you're trying to write like somebody
      else,
      forget about it.
      if you have to wait for it to roar out of
      you,
      then wait patiently.
      if it never does roar out of you,
      do something else.

      if you first have to read it to your wife
      or your girlfriend or your boyfriend
      or your parents or to anybody at all,
      you're not ready.

      don't be like so many writers,
      don't be like so many thousands of
      people who call themselves writers,
      don't be dull and boring and
      pretentious, don't be consumed with self-
      love.
      the libraries of the world have
      yawned themselves to
      sleep
      over your kind.
      don't add to that.
      don't do it.
      unless it comes out of
      your soul like a rocket,
      unless being still would
      drive you to madness or
      suicide or murder,
      don't do it.
      unless the sun inside you is
      burning your gut,
      don't do it.

      when it is truly time,
      and if you have been chosen,
      it will do it by
      itself and it will keep on doing it
      until you die or it dies in you.

      there is no other way.

      and there never was.
      - See more at: http://allpoetry.com/So-You-Want-To-Be-A-Writer#sthash.l4Ud9l62.dpuf

      So You Want To Be A Writer

      if it doesn't come bursting out of you
      in spite of everything,
      don't do it.
      unless it comes unasked out of your
      heart and your mind and your mouth
      and your gut,
      don't do it.
      if you have to sit for hours
      staring at your computer screen
      or hunched over your
      typewriter
      searching for words,
      don't do it.
      if you're doing it for money or
      fame,
      don't do it.
      if you're doing it because you want
      women in your bed,
      don't do it.
      if you have to sit there and
      rewrite it again and again,
      don't do it.
      if it's hard work just thinking about doing it,
      don't do it.
      if you're trying to write like somebody
      else,
      forget about it.
      if you have to wait for it to roar out of
      you,
      then wait patiently.
      if it never does roar out of you,
      do something else.

      if you first have to read it to your wife
      or your girlfriend or your boyfriend
      or your parents or to anybody at all,
      you're not ready.

      don't be like so many writers,
      don't be like so many thousands of
      people who call themselves writers,
      don't be dull and boring and
      pretentious, don't be consumed with self-
      love.
      the libraries of the world have
      yawned themselves to
      sleep
      over your kind.
      don't add to that.
      don't do it.
      unless it comes out of
      your soul like a rocket,
      unless being still would
      drive you to madness or
      suicide or murder,
      don't do it.
      unless the sun inside you is
      burning your gut,
      don't do it.

      when it is truly time,
      and if you have been chosen,
      it will do it by
      itself and it will keep on doing it
      until you die or it dies in you.

      there is no other way.

      and there never was.
      - See more at: http://allpoetry.com/So-You-Want-To-Be-A-Writer#sthash.l4Ud9l62.dpuf

      So You Want To Be A Writer

      if it doesn't come bursting out of you
      in spite of everything,
      don't do it.
      unless it comes unasked out of your
      heart and your mind and your mouth
      and your gut,
      don't do it.
      if you have to sit for hours
      staring at your computer screen
      or hunched over your
      typewriter
      searching for words,
      don't do it.
      if you're doing it for money or
      fame,
      don't do it.
      if you're doing it because you want
      women in your bed,
      don't do it.
      if you have to sit there and
      rewrite it again and again,
      don't do it.
      if it's hard work just thinking about doing it,
      don't do it.
      if you're trying to write like somebody
      else,
      forget about it.
      if you have to wait for it to roar out of
      you,
      then wait patiently.
      if it never does roar out of you,
      do something else.

      if you first have to read it to your wife
      or your girlfriend or your boyfriend
      or your parents or to anybody at all,
      you're not ready.

      don't be like so many writers,
      don't be like so many thousands of
      people who call themselves writers,
      don't be dull and boring and
      pretentious, don't be consumed with self-
      love.
      the libraries of the world have
      yawned themselves to
      sleep
      over your kind.
      don't add to that.
      don't do it.
      unless it comes out of
      your soul like a rocket,
      unless being still would
      drive you to madness or
      suicide or murder,
      don't do it.
      unless the sun inside you is
      burning your gut,
      don't do it.

      when it is truly time,
      and if you have been chosen,
      it will do it by
      itself and it will keep on doing it
      until you die or it dies in you.

      there is no other way.

      and there never was.
      - See more at: http://allpoetry.com/So-You-Want-To-Be-A-Writer#sthash.l4Ud9l62.dpuf

      So You Want To Be A Writer

      if it doesn't come bursting out of you
      in spite of everything,
      don't do it.
      unless it comes unasked out of your
      heart and your mind and your mouth
      and your gut,
      don't do it.
      if you have to sit for hours
      staring at your computer screen
      or hunched over your
      typewriter
      searching for words,
      don't do it.
      if you're doing it for money or
      fame,
      don't do it.
      if you're doing it because you want
      women in your bed,
      don't do it.
      if you have to sit there and
      rewrite it again and again,
      don't do it.
      if it's hard work just thinking about doing it,
      don't do it.
      if you're trying to write like somebody
      else,
      forget about it.
      if you have to wait for it to roar out of
      you,
      then wait patiently.
      if it never does roar out of you,
      do something else.

      if you first have to read it to your wife
      or your girlfriend or your boyfriend
      or your parents or to anybody at all,
      you're not ready.

      don't be like so many writers,
      don't be like so many thousands of
      people who call themselves writers,
      don't be dull and boring and
      pretentious, don't be consumed with self-
      love.
      the libraries of the world have
      yawned themselves to
      sleep
      over your kind.
      don't add to that.
      don't do it.
      unless it comes out of
      your soul like a rocket,
      unless being still would
      drive you to madness or
      suicide or murder,
      don't do it.
      unless the sun inside you is
      burning your gut,
      don't do it.

      when it is truly time,
      and if you have been chosen,
      it will do it by
      itself and it will keep on doing it
      until you die or it dies in you.

      there is no other way.

      and there never was.
      - See more at: http://allpoetry.com/So-You-Want-To-Be-A-Writer#sthash.l4Ud9l62.dpuf

      So You Want To Be A Writer

      if it doesn't come bursting out of you
      in spite of everything,
      don't do it.
      unless it comes unasked out of your
      heart and your mind and your mouth
      and your gut,
      don't do it.
      if you have to sit for hours
      staring at your computer screen
      or hunched over your
      typewriter
      searching for words,
      don't do it.
      if you're doing it for money or
      fame,
      don't do it.
      if you're doing it because you want
      women in your bed,
      don't do it.
      if you have to sit there and
      rewrite it again and again,
      don't do it.
      if it's hard work just thinking about doing it,
      don't do it.
      if you're trying to write like somebody
      else,
      forget about it.
      if you have to wait for it to roar out of
      you,
      then wait patiently.
      if it never does roar out of you,
      do something else.

      if you first have to read it to your wife
      or your girlfriend or your boyfriend
      or your parents or to anybody at all,
      you're not ready.

      don't be like so many writers,
      don't be like so many thousands of
      people who call themselves writers,
      don't be dull and boring and
      pretentious, don't be consumed with self-
      love.
      the libraries of the world have
      yawned themselves to
      sleep
      over your kind.
      don't add to that.
      don't do it.
      unless it comes out of
      your soul like a rocket,
      unless being still would
      drive you to madness or
      suicide or murder,
      don't do it.
      unless the sun inside you is
      burning your gut,
      don't do it.

      when it is truly time,
      and if you have been chosen,
      it will do it by
      itself and it will keep on doing it
      until you die or it dies in you.

      there is no other way.

      and there never was.
      - See more at: http://allpoetry.com/So-You-Want-To-Be-A-Writer#sthash.l4Ud9l62.dpuf
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