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Wednesday, 30 December 2020

A Dialectic With Myself: Practical Yin Yang Approach to Coincidentia Oppositorum



Agathokakological. A Dialectic With Myself: Practical Yin Yang Approach to Coincidentia Oppositorum

 
Following a long outdoorsy day on the Red Sea it was time for a nice hot — then cold — shower. Upon entering the bathroom, I caught myself in the middle of a mental chatter that turned out to be quite illuminating, let alone entertaining. By the end of those five minutes, which felt like aeons, the workings of my psychonautic mind became crystal clear. I was offered a glimpse into the very fabric of our world and the true [enough] nature of reality. 


• Coincidentia Oppositorum
• Yin Yang
• The Trap of Black-and-White Thinking




This isn’t the first time a mundane act inspired a deep dive. My earlier piece, Theory of Mind: Thinking About Thinking and the Benefits of Observing the Observer was triggered by trimming my nails. 

Now, let us entertain the novel perspective together — whether you take it as philosophy, logic, or just a simple story.





The Bath Mat Dialectic



As I stepped out of my flip-flops, I found myself sidestepping the blue towel I used as a bath mat. I had placed it there because it was softer than the rough rug (left in the below photo), yet I was actively avoiding it.


Why? Because my feet were sandy, dusty, and blackish from a day spent barefoot on the beach. After all, I do reside on the beach.  


At that moment, a sarcastic voice erupted in my head: “Uhm, pretty sure this is not how bath mats work! The whole point is to step on it while barefoot.”


Then, the second voice — using the Sandwich Method — responded: 
“I see what you’re saying. However, if we step on it now with unclean feet, it won’t be clean when we come out of the shower. We’d be rendering our newly-cleaned feet unclean. Aha!”





The Infinite Loop


The first voice doubled down on the “sandwiching”:

“True. Though this is precisely what mats are for: We use them, then we wash them. Use. Clean. Repeat. Ad infinitum — until the mat deteriorates in 37 years and becomes a rag. It’s a constant process. Use. Clean. Repeat — mats as well as feet. Teet Teet!”  





The dialectic spiralled deeper:


• Voice A: “You don’t even step on it with slippers nor flip-flops. I see you taking them off. I was there. We were there.”


• Voice B: “Because the soles are dusty from outside!”


• Voice A: “Ridiculous. Mats and rugs are made to be stepped on and get dirty.”


• Voice B: “Fine. But if we can postpone the dirtiness with a quirky antic, why not? Less laundry. More convenience.”



The Conclusion:


“Fine. Agree to disagree and disagree to agree.”
“Likewise, agree to agree and disagree to disagree.”



Dialectically yours.
 

A Dialectic With Myself: Practical Yin Yang Approach to Coincidentia Oppositorum by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul
Bath rug left and bath mat right


The Aha-Moment: A Googillion Suns



While standing there naked-ready, staring at the floor, it suddenly dawned on me with the force of a googillion suns: This is Coincidentia Oppositorum in action. Or, more simply: Unity of Opposites in motion.


Literally translating as “dark-bright” or “negative-positive,” the ancient Chinese concept of Yin Yang describes how seemingly contrary forces are actually complementary and interdependent.

The poles are different, yet never separate. They are like quantumly entangled particles in a cosmic dance — interacting, vibrating in unison, and remaining connected even if a whole universe separates them. In this equation, everything is in constant while the interaction is always metamorphosing.


• Dark and Light
• Sinner and Saint
• Hot and Cold
• Theory and Practice


From Abstract to Applied


While the concept might seem like high-level abstraction, our bathroom story is purely practical. It deals with decision-making and our fundamental perception of reality.


As with all philosophy, if we don’t learn how to integrate the knowledge into our daily lives, it remains mere “information”.

Theory is abstracted practice, just as practice is applied theory.


It is the experience of application that catalyses true wisdom—that glimmer of light within the darkness. This is the cornerstone of the mystical experience and the heart of mindfulness.


The Soul of the Story


Why tell a story about a bath mat? Because the easy way out is to sit on a mountaintop with eyes closed, staring at the void. But the real work is the integration— making ourselves better versions of our “selves” through the quality of our thoughts.


I use storytelling because stories help us make sense of the chaos. They provide coherence through:





• Metaphors & Analogies
• Allegories & Similes
• The dance between the general and the specific


Stories have the power to either warm our hearts or shatter our brains — often both. As a species, we are wired to think in narratives; we don’t just tell them, we become them.


Remember: Everyone has a story if we are willing to listen. Never judge the book by its look.





Throughout the ages, the art of storytelling has been our most trusted and inspiring endeavour to present our ideas out there for the world to see. Yet, when dealing particularly with philosophical or metaphysical matters — as we are doing herein — the step of telling a good, entertaining, and educational story may only be achieved after knowing the topic inside and out, which means first grasping the conceptual theoretical. That said, here is the excerpt taken right out of the book… before going back to the non-blather chatter-patter.

Here are two other articles mainly about storytelling, For The Love Of Storytelling, and Connecting the Dots — a Storyteller Way of Seeing the Big Picture.

The Healing Powers of Storytelling: A Personal Experience (2026) is a later manifesto. 
 


To the untrained eye the principle of Yin Yang may seem like duality on the surface. Once, however, one gets a clearer understanding, the notion of oneness beneath the non-duality becomes apparent. The listener and the speaker within your head are one and the same. But to come to terms with this insight, you need to rise above both and become the observer of the observer.

When this step is achieved you will notice that you’ll often be able to hold two opposite ideas in your mind simultaneously. This is the concept of Coincidentia Oppositorum, which is Latin for Coincidence of Opposites or Unity of Opposites. Those two components — the poles — are not antithetical, incompatible, or incongruent, but they are in fact complementary. One is needed to provide contrast for the other. Both are necessary to the balance of the ‘system’. For the road up and the road down are the same road.

The concept was first suggested by the pre-Socratic Greek philosopher Heraclitus. Then in the 15th C. German polymath, Nicholas of Cusa, coined the neoplatonic term Coincidentia Oppositorum. In On the Vision of God, Cusa described the concept as “The wall of paradise, beyond which is God”.

In modern philosophy, the Coincidentia Oppositorum doctrine is sometimes regarded as a metaphysical concept, a philosophical concept, or a scientific concept. However, the interpenetration, interdependence, and unification of opposites is considered as one of the fundamentals of mystical thought rather than philosophical thought. 


 
Unity of Opposites is equally the central category of dialectics. Also known as the dialectical method, it is basically a discourse between two or more people holding different points of view about a subject yet wishing to establish the truth through reasoned methods of argumentation. In philosophy, it is the art of investigating or discussing the truth of opinions; as it is an inquiry into metaphysical contradictions and their solutions.

The Western dialectical forms include Classical Philosophy
— Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle — Medieval Philosophy — Boethius and Thomas Aquinas — and Modern Philosophy — Hegel and Karl Marx. There are also Theological dialectical forms as in the Baháʼí Faith, which advocates a form of dialectical science and religion. 

With that, there is also the conceptual triad: Thesis, Antithesis, and Synthesis. The thesis (a proposition) is challenged by an antithesis (a contradiction or negation), leading to resolving the conflict through a synthesis, which forms a novel and more complete proposition by reconciling the truths contained in both poles.

Having just mentioned Hegel’s dialectic, the man however used a different language when developing a dynamic process of development described as a progression from an abstract idea (thesis) through its contradiction (antithesis) to a more concrete, unified concept (synthesis). A process known as Aufhebung or “sublation” involves preserving the truth of a concept while overcoming its limitations, leading to a higher and more complex cognisance.

 
From a psychological perspective, the union of opposites was one of Carl Jung’s fundamental principles for understanding the psyche and maturing into wholeness and reconciliation. He held that reaching this state has philosophical as well as religious implications, which eventually leads to psychology if one wants to understand the psyche dynamic behind it. 

Jung called the cooperation of conscious reasoning with the data of the unconscious Transcendental Function. “It is a process and a method at the same time. The production of unconscious compensations is a spontaneous process; the conscious realisation is a method. The function is called ‘transcendent’ because it facilitates the transition from one psychic condition to another by means of the mutual confrontation of opposites.”


From a human perspective, fathoming said polarity and coming to terms with it is how we understand things. For our language is dualistic in nature. This is therefore how our minds have learned to reason, to justify our own conclusions, and to classify and conceptualise situations: through consciously holding opposing choices, ideas, and concepts, and comparing between them. In fact, our species have been conditioned to perceive the world through binary lenses. We therefore also learn by means of opposites. This ability to see through contradictory elements can lead to true — or true enough — and often complex knowledge. As Terence McKenna succinctly put it: “If you don’t at least occasionally contradict yourself your position isn’t nearly complex enough.” 



Plenty of other mammoth souls throughout the ages entertained the concept and philosophy
— be it mystics, visionaries, scientists, or authors. Among them is American novelist F. Scott Fitzgerald who in 1936 noted: 

“The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function.” 
 
This quote was kindly shared by a reader commenting on the excerpt, which happened to have been shared hundreds of times on Facebook — mainly through a Terence McKenna page as well as a “Psychedelics and Philosophy” one. 
 

A Dialectic With Myself: Practical Yin Yang Approach to Coincidentia Oppositorum by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul

 
Now back to our bathroom conversation and the nature of reality...

What may first appear like duality on the surface may not really be that polar. Rather than plus vs minus or with vs. without, it is plus and minus as it is with and without. Rarely is it an either or situation. Both coexisting sides are, in fact, complementary. Both are needed to define each other while none is ever absolute. Instead of reactively choosing one side over the other, as winner and loser, one can come to recognise then accept the validity and legitimacy of both seemingly conflicting, contradictory views. As such, we end with a more wholesome, balanced, bigger, and fuller picture to suit the agathokakological universe in which we live.

Oftentimes, after accepting the existence of both supposedly conflicting ideas and weighing the available options, the observer of the observer then integrates and reconciles by deciding to side with one pole over the other. That’s how decision making is accomplished. Some close cases even to the extent of having 51 percent from one side and 49 percent from the other. 

Most of times, however, it may be around 40-60 or 30-70 depending on how much of the equation or of the Big Picture you get to essentially “see”. 

Something to remember whenever feeling ambivalent, inconclusive, stuck in a quandary, or torn between certain choices or courses of action. As Jung would suggest, do not choose yet... until a third more agreeable option appears. That is by keeping both truths and the tension they represent in your awareness long enough for the deeper self to work on it. 
 
This work is oftentimes accompanied by either mere fortune or through what seems like a cosmic Orphic intervention. We can then find ourselves walking along the Path Of The Razor’s Edge — the periphery. This psychospiritual state entails seeing the full picture, both sides of the coin, including the little good in the bad as well as the little bad in the good. Exemplified in the black dot in the white and the white dot in the black of the Yin Yang symbol, there exists a balance between the two opposite poles; by having a portion of the opposite element in both sections. 
 
Baltering, faltering, coddiwompling, and skedaddling freely along that circular periphery one gets to simultaneously perceive the light and the darkness, the black and the white, the in and the out. Then, the sage and the lunatic and the ongoing dialogue between them are transcended by the one who rises above, revealing a deeper, fuller truth. Illumination at last! Enlightenment. Awakening. Soul Liberation. Nirvana. Satori. The Source of Being. The Kingdom of Heaven. Eternal Bliss. The Quintessence.
 
This razor’s edge is what I anticipate Cusa had called “The wall of paradise, beyond which is God” when describing Coincidentia Oppositorum.
 There truly is no greatest poetry than being nothing and everything at the same time.
 
A different example I use in the book is taken from none other than nature. Let us consider a cheetah mother killing an impala to feed herself and her young one. This situation is good for the cheetah and her cub while bad for the impala and her fawn. Or is it?

In reality, this hunter/hunted situation is neither good nor bad. It is simply what it is: Neutral. It is actually part of the circle of life. That is how nature functions. We are nature; hence this is how we function. The scenario could be what we choose to look at. It is solely a matter of perception. Now, what if the fawn was infected with some deadly disease and was about to transmit it to its mother, who, in turn, was going to transmit it to the whole herd causing them to all die at the end? So when the mother antelope is killed, the fawn won’t be able to survive which will save the herd. Who knows, really. We humans are not omniscient like that; we don’t possess this capacity to know all or to see the much larger picture all the time. So judging by labelling people, situations, and things good or bad remains but a subjective experience — the easy way out. Good and bad for whom exactly? The cheetah or the impala? The cub or the fawn? The herd of antelopes or the cheetah population? What about for you, the observer?   

In Taoist metaphysics, distinctions between good and bad shown in Yin Yang, along with other dichotomous moral judgements, are considered perceptual rather than real; hence the duality remains an indivisible whole leading to true oneness... of the circle. 
 

The problem with black-and-white thinking is that you never get to see the rainbow.


Now, when further contemplating the matter we realise that while in the bathroom example we’re dealing with what seems like two choices, in reality there are usually more than just two options, as it is rarely ever limited to two absolute extremes. Consider in politics when they slyly corner you with a box-choice by offering “The lesser of two evils”, like it is some kind of absolute necessity to vote. In truth, though, not choosing is clearly a third option. Echoing with Jean-Paul Sartre’s choisir, c’est encore choisir; not choosing is still choosing, you see. That is transcending the apparent duality. 

In actuality, when people think in such a binary way they fail to simultaneously incorporate both positive and negative qualities of themselves and of others in order to form a realistic whole. This tends to lead them to think in terms of extremes — widening the dichotomy in-between both poles while making it more rigid and harder to bridge. It becomes: With or against me, us vs. them. Extremism is a suicidal attitude to have in life, which brings upon fear, hatred, and lack of empathy among other detrimental qualities. As such, neither reconciliation nor wholeness can be accomplished.
 
In psychology, Black-and-White thinking is called “Splitting”, which is a common defence mechanism some people use.
 


In logic, Black-and-White thinking is also a fallacy called “False Dilemma”. It occurs when something is falsely claimed to be an “either/or” situation, limiting the number of alternatives available when in fact there is at least one additional option. At least. Certainly a not-deep-enough way to perceive reality.

Once, then, we are to able see the oneness beneath the dance, the marriage — reaching the balanced “Yin-Yang” insight — one can entertain this dialogue between both opposites, learn from them while rising above what misleadingly appears like absolute duality. This is achieved through the mystical experience; by becoming the observer of the observer and embracing the Oneness beneath the polar juxtaposition. This is where we find truth, yet rarely ever it would be absolute. Mayhap truth finds us just as well.

Then other times in life Coincidentia Oppositorum as well as Yin Yang become practical in reflection and contemplation without the need to make any choice. Like the case of the cheetah and the impala. Mere observation suffices. Along with experimentalism, observation can be the best of teachers. Remember that the observer of the observer is the one with the vantage perspective. 
 
 
Whether you look for the good in others or the bad you will find it.


A Dialectic With Myself: Practical Yin Yang Approach to Coincidentia Oppositorum by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul
Balance


As we have seen, Coincidentia Oppositorum deals with the possibility of achieving balance by having the apabicity to perceive both sides of the same coin. Showing how not only is it fine to be able to hold two opposites ideas in our minds at the same time, but also how it actually seems like the wisest of approaches. Apabicity, by the way, is one of 176 words and their definitions which I have come up with, conveniently defined as: The state of having the ability, capability, and capacity all at once. Uhu. 
 
Wisdom aside, we still find that many people are only able to process reality in a binary way, as in “with me” or “without me”. “This or That”. “Fight or Flight”. No Rainbow.
 No various colours or shades. No full spectrum. No big, full picture. No different hues or distinct angles. No nuances, degrees, spices or flavours. No subtlety nor even sensibility nor sensitivity. Not even grey. Just black, and white.
 
Beside helping us in our decision-making, this balance can also be applied when dealing with the outside world. Consider those times when you are exposed to that which goes against a certain belief or conviction you hold and it triggers an emotional reaction. Acknowledging both sides of the spectrum offers you a chance to re-examine the belief. It does not matter if you may or not not agree with the novel or different view at the end. But do take the chance to explore the novelty and the difference. Because you will likely end up learning something or two from the experience. It would either strengthen your argument or offer you a whole different perspective. Perhaps a bit of both if you are lucky. 


 
As follows, fear not to understand things, or to entertain ideas, that clash with your own beliefs, traditions, and privileges.

In our case here, after reasonably observing the dialogue between the inner voices and the two different courses of action they propose, I eventually chose to carry on not stepping on the bath mat with unclean feet, but on the floor instead before jumping into the shower. Smoothing hot water then 20 seconds of significantly cold water until I moaned out a loud and invigorating “Ahhhhh”. The instant shock makes you feel like being electrocuted and your brain lightens up in flashes. How refreshing hot and cold showers are. Both: Synthesis. 

Then once all cleansed, it was time to step on the still-clean bath mat. Yes, in a few days it will need washing; because that’s how towels work and that’s what shall happen.

 
The hot-and-cold shower appears to have reset something up and in there as I was struck with yet another epiphanic moment: The inherently pristine, immaculate beauty of this Oneness we’re speaking of; of the essence of being able to look at things, with impartial eyes, and wholesomely see them for what they really are; not as we want them to be or think they should be. Opening the Doors of Perceptions and entering... without conceptualisation, condemnation, expectation, or prior prejudice or judgement. O’ the Reconciliation. The Union. Yoga. The Mental Peace. The Soul Dance.
 
The final verdict was to keep the bath mat for when barefoot before and after showers, as this time, while removing the bath rug completely. For any other use of the bathroom, especially when wearing something I use outside the house, the actual floor works fine. Sounds good to us. And that, Ladies and Gentlemen, is how it’s done. That is how we fundamentally deal with that which appears different, whether inside our heads or in the outside world.

 


At the very end, it seems safe to ascertain that if one is capable of integrating their inner polarity, by rising above it and hopefully reaching a certain degree of reconciliation, they will also be equipped to deal with anything different residing outside of them. Calmly, wisely, and with the quintessence of equanimity.

 
À la prochaine conversation with myself. I hope you enjoyed the tour as much as we did. Salute to your Souls. 
 

A Dialectic With Myself: Practical Yin Yang Approach to Coincidentia Oppositorum by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul
Et Voilà. The End (Thank you, Seif)
 
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Wednesday, 15 February 2017

One More Precognitive Dream





Precognitive dream: A dream that exhibits knowledge about the future which the dreamer could not have obtained via normal channels.


A few months back I had a dream of someone I care about in which they were facing some marital issues. We live in different continents and I haven’t seen or thought of them any time recently. So being so random I sensed that it could be one of my precognitive dreams.

As I often do after those dreams, I reached out to ask about them. To my sight surprise, they said that all was fine, yet in an indifferent, perhaps also slightly defensive way. Shortly after, I told them how I remember seeing them in the dream going through a moment of detachment as well as freedom, which was the initial reason why I asked. Still, they denied having any problems — despite having always felt that they were never particularly happy in their relationship.

Somehow I could not get over that dream as I felt that it is one of those genuine ones I’m writing about in the book. I believe some of you remember how I dreamed of the passing of my aunt and my Cocker Spaniel plus of getting into an accident before they actually happen.

Dealing with High Awareness and Empathic Accuracy is a much more detailed piece examining how some of us seem to be able to see beyond the veil and how “High awareness can be a double-edged sword if you don’t know how to channel it.”



A month or two later, I was speaking to a common friend when I mentioned said dream. They paused for a second, before telling me that our friend’s marriage was indeed going through troubled times. Aha. Since I’m getting better at trusting this kind of prophetic visions, in a strange, inexplicable way I sort of knew all along that there is probably some kind of truth behind that last one.

More months passed when I was once again with the common friend and the topic of my book — and dreams — came up. They then told me that our friend whom I had dreamed of had a divorce. Oh. Should I say ‘Surprise!’?

When I wondered out loud about the reason why when I first asked if everything was fine I was told yes, they said that our recently-divorced friend apparently thought that someone had told me about the ongoing problems they were then having with their spouse. This implies that I knew all along and have invented that dream story just to, I don’t know, mess with them?

Moral the story: If I dream of you and I let you know, there is no reason why not to be honest. In any case, this type of dreams almost always involve those who are — or once were — somewhat close to me.


What is intriguing is that by the end of the book I still do not have clear explanations about how cognitive dreams work among other mind-over-matter phenomena discussed therein. What I do know for sure is that they exist and if you learn how to listen closely, they could make great allies. I equally know with certainly that I am not the only one who gets them, which in one way is a relief.

Dreams are the Pearly Gates of the subconscious. Pay attention and follow them confidently to where they lead you, for they are also the language in which our souls communicate with the YOUniverse.

On a parallel note, I will leave you with an eye-opening Banned Ted Talk by physicist Russell Targ about psychic abilities. Targ spent several decades exploring the humans psyche while working with the CIA and NASA, chiefly in the U.S government “Remote Viewing (RV)” program.

For me, “Banned” talks are always the most captivating. It makes you ponder why certain type of knowledge is censored and deliberately kept away from the masses. Enjoy.






ALSO VIEW:


Dreaming of the Accident Before it Happened

Dealing with High Awareness and Empathic Accuracy

The LSD Experiments of the 1950s and 60s [Videos & Documentaries]

What Being Conscious Means

A Dieu Caramella

Out-of-Body Experience and Ego Death on a “Heroic Dose” of Mushrooms

Placebo Effect & The LSD Prank

Surviving the Madness of Sakarana — Hyoscyamus muticus (aka Deadly Nightshade)













 
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Thursday, 19 May 2016

What Being Conscious Means



What Being Conscious Means by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul

We often hear about being conscious and aware. It is usually linked to “waking up” and becoming illuminated. There is actually a writing category here on One Lucky Soul labelled: Conscious Living. But what does being, and becoming, conscious truly mean? And what are the implications does it have on one’s life?

In simple terms, being conscious means being mindful; it means being aware, attentive, and responsive to one’s surrounding; awake. In the sense of “being aware of wrongdoing”, the word originated in the 16th Century from Latin conscius “knowing with others or in oneself”, from conscire “be privy to”.

Before delving into the topic and to portrait the idea in more practical terms, the following are examples from everyday life which had reminded me by what being conscious is. 
It is interesting to note that most of these observations only came to me later as I was reflecting upon the notion. But during the time they took place, it never felt like I was doing anything unusual or unnatural. It was indeed the total opposite; it felt so right and natural. It simply felt like the conscious thing to do, without seeking certain reward or fearing any punishment. 


1- Reusable Grocery Bags

Once in Los Angeles I was going to the grocery store with my uncle who’s in his early 80s, when we forgot to bring the empty bags. I wanted to turn around to go get them but he said: “It’s OK, the bag is only for five cents.”

I didn’t say anything then, though I was reminded that this is not the only reason why I like reusable bags. But it’s for conservation, recycling, saving the tress and all that. When we buy new ones we go home and usually throw them in the garbage or keep them in drawers which are already full of unused bags. So, the Big Picture wins.


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2- Recycling and Removing Dog Poop in Egypt

What Being Conscious Means by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul
Be the change. The rest will follow.

Speaking of, after religiously recycling my trash and picking up after my dogs for several years in Canada and the U.S, it seems there is no going back. Once I began visiting Egypt, it felt absurd not to do so. So even though I didn’t have to, I wholeheartedly wanted to. There came to be a certain compulsion behind the act. 

One day as I was picking up after Shakira, my cousin’s sweet Cocker Spaniel, three foreigners looked at me like I am certainly not from around here. The garbage man, who has to sort the garbage by hands, must have been equally startled to find two separate bags.

Another instance, also in Zamalek, I used a poopy plastic bag to remove the #2 before throwing it in the nearest garbage — no more than 20 seconds for the whole thing. Through the corner of my eye, this time, I could see a kiosk guy looking at me like I’m from a different solar system before telling his friend: “Do you see, man, how clean foreigners are?”

 [ شايف يابني الأجانب و نضافتهم ].

So once done, I headed towards them and smilingly said: “Samo-Aleiko”. This is an “urban” Egyptian-dialect rendition of the full, standard Arabic greeting or salutation “Al Salam Aleikom”. Just to show them that I am indeed local and that cleanliness has nothing to do with one’s nationality or skin colour among other labels. 

Fortunately, picking up after your dog today is no longer such an uncommon sight — yet still far from common.  





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3- Not Throwing Bubblegum Without Cover

What Being Conscious Means by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul
How it’s done in Japan

During one of those trips to Egypt, I attended a reunion with a whole lot of schoolmates. We were catching up and talking about those of us who were/are living abroad. Apparently, after living in Japan for a while, one mate Amr no longer throws bubblegum on the ground anymore. The friends found out about it when they were together somewhere in Cairo and, after he was done with his gum, he took out a folded note from his pocket so that he can ‘safely’ discard it. Of course for anyone who grew up and lived all their lives in Egypt, this may seem hilarious. Yet in actual truth it is also impressive. 



In fact, gum containers in Japan come with a little pad of post-it note for your discarded gum. How thoughtful are these Japs, huh. Or should we fittingly say: How conscious.

In my own way, I’ve been doing the same with the occasional smoke filters — in the street and on the beach. 


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4- Not Killing Insects

What Being Conscious Means by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul
Laurel and Hardy the fruit flies awaiting their turns to sip
— Venice Beach, 2017 


What had first ignited not killing insects was a single experience that took place when I was 20 and camping somewhere in Sinai. I happened to squash a tiny teeny ant and ending its life. Yet being in a higher state of consciousness due to LSD, it was phenomenally touching. It changed my perspective and made me think about how other creations look at us. Since then, I think 17 times before killing ants or flies among other tiny sentient beings. No matter the level of empathy and compassion towards Mother Nature, I still cannot say the same about mosquitos, certainly not cockroaches. 

The first of three ant articles to come to being many years later in August 2014 was Why Ants Carry Their Dead and Other Fascinating Facts. 

The sequel Ants Carry Other Live Ones as Means of Transportation: Further Evidence That They Must Be Communicating [Videos] followed a mere 48 hours later. 

Finally, the trifecta was completed by the end of the week with Guiding Ants Out Of The Kitchen... Alive — when I did just that in case you’re wondering.

Further observation throughout later years, I realised how a fly stuck in a room will always cooperate with us if we want to kick it out than if you want to kill it. Because, it’s mere instinct. The same goes for ants and other insects.

Truly, now whenever seeing an insect the last thing on my mind is to kill it — either by running to look for a repellent or a shoe. If I can’t kick them out peacefully, I catch and release instead. With practice, you can actually become quite good at it. 



Eventually, I got so  interested in our cousins that the ant articles were followed by ones abotu other species. about how ants carry their dead as well as other nest-mates as means of transportation.
 You can read about the madness Here, Here, and There.


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5- Closing The Tap While Brushing Teeth


This only began later in life when I was in Los Angeles during the California drought of 2014. As mentioned, some of these simple transformations take you by surprise, and that’s why, again, I wrote an article about it: How inspiration Is Transferable.

An additional reminder came to me when I took a break from writing this piece and went to have dinner at the local Lemonade. Along with my food, I picked up four tiny salt and pepper packets and put them on the tray, but I only used one of each. So when I was done and about to throw what’s on the tray in the garbage, I remembered those two unused packets and proceeded in putting them back to where they belong instead of wasting them.




You see how small these acts are? But it’s the collective of minute individual changes that eventually makes the difference. After a while you do not think about doing these acts; your attentiveness to your surrounding is just there. And if you follow through it, you will find that you will lead a happy and peaceful life. Simply because down, deep, inside you know you are connected to the whole and you know you are doing your share. Not because you are forced or required, but because you want to…because being conscious makes you feel alive and in-sync with the Natural Order.

Now that you have a better idea about our topic, let us dive a tad deeper. 


What Being Conscious Means by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul
Oftentimes we find the numbers to be 90% subconscious
and 10% for the conscious

By beginning of 1680s, conscious meant “aware of one’s action” — a word of the English Enlightenment. This was a philosophical, intellectual, and cultural movement during the 17th and 18th Centuries, which stressed on the advantage of reason, logic, and freedom of thought over dogma and blind faith. The Enlightenment was the time when the notion of absolute authority of the church and state was openly rejected — hence sometimes referred to as The Age of Reason. 



This epochal movement was ignited by Les Philosophes in France, who were a group of literary men, scientists, and thinkers.

In the field of science, names like Francis Bacon, Isaac Newton, and Gottfried Leibniz are considered pioneers of The Enlightenment; in philosophy there is Descartes, Locke, Spinoza, Kant, and Voltaire.



It is similar to how several centuries earlier Leonardo da Vinci, Dante, Machiavelli, and Michelangelo were deeply associated with the Renaissance, which is widely regarded as an antecedent to The Enlightenment.

We can find the same happening much later when the Hippie Movement followed through Bohemianism in terms of borrowed ideas and ideals. More on that on this earlier exposé: Why Hippies Are Sometimes Called Bohemians. 


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Conscious brings us to another term, “self-conscious”. In psychology and philosophy, being self-conscious means: Having knowledge of one’s own existence, especially the knowledge of oneself as a conscious being. 



Paradoxically, self-conscious is also an adjective, meaning uncomfortable, uneasy, and embarrassed. This reminds me of a phenomenon eloquently explained by Alan Watts in The Book on The Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are. The title may be enough to give you a hint of what I mean here.

What I would like to note is, the word ‘conscious’ may have been new to language during The Enlightenment, but the concept of “knowing oneself” to reach enlightenment — or Illumination, Soul Liberation, Nirvana, Satori, The Source, The Invisible Piper... — was nothing new to humanity.

For Ancient Egyptians, we find the aphorism as: The Kingdom of Heaven is within you; and whosoever shall know himself shall find it.



For Ancient Greeks, it’s Gnothi Seauton; in Latin, Nosce Te Ipsum.



We also find it in Judaism as He is in all, and all is in him; in Christianity, it’s “Know Thyself”; and in Islam, especially Sufism, the emphasis on self-knowledge came in the form of “Who knows himself knows his Lord.” 



Equally in Buddhism: Look within, you are the Buddha; and in Taoism: In the death of the soil, one sees the Divine, the One.

Psychotherapy is one more school of thought that is based upon knowing oneself — the conscious self and its subconscious counterpart, which is “in charge” of the brain during a staggering 95 percent of the time.


What Being Conscious Means by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul
My Journey Towards Self-Transcendence




Conscious also brings us to the act of “becoming conscious” — commonly portrayed as awakening. Because we are born conscious, in the sense of connected. But then by the time we grow up through all the conditioning, indoctrination, distractions, most of us lose this sense. If we are fortunate, later in life we may be given the chance to awaken and re-become who we essentially were. We do so by letting go of all that is not us.  

Awakening means different things to different people. Generally, it follows a big change in one’s life. This can happen spontaneously in an instant, perhaps as a result of a certain realisation or a mystical experience. Or it can happen throughout a longer period of time and through different stages, as with meditation and other esoteric practices. It could also be triggered through overcoming suffering or trauma, like abuse, addiction, or simply a divorce.



One thing remains certain, this self-transformation is not easy. 

We simply do not wake up one morning to find ourselves awakened, it does not just happen. Echoing with Carl Jung: “One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.”

Change, however, requires sincere work on the self, which not many people are willing to go through. That is mainly because they do not want to face their true selves and take full responsibility of their own lives.

The process of going through an awakening and “coming to consciousness” goes hand-in-hand with the evolution of this consciousness. 
It is usually a profound and worthy experience which guides us through the path of the transformation of the soul. It is the process by which we shed our old skin, open our eyes, and become aware and ‘knowing’. As Nietzsche reminds us, “The snake which cannot cast its skin has to die.”

When the level of consciousness is raised towards illumination — Enlightenment, Nirvana, Moksha... — one major transformation entails experiencing a constant state of unconditional love. Not towards anyone or anything in particular, but with Everyone and Everything. True love is directed outwards, yet it is ignited by loving ourselves first. 



When you come to truly know your self — your real higher Self — you cannot help but to love it, you see. When you do love yourself you tend to become conscious towards it; therefore you maintain a healthy mind, body, and soul. You consequently eat right, move right, and talk to yourself right. 



The same cycle also means empathy, compassion, and selflessness; seeing beyond the self. Someone who is truly conscious means they are capable of perceiving the bigger picture of things and the greater good.

 They understand, or come close to understanding, the true nature of reality. Echoing with Joseph Campbell’s word, “When we quit thinking primarily about ourselves and our own self-preservation, we undergo a truly heroic transformation of consciousness.”

This is not a mere philosophical stance, but as you have seen in the shared examples, it reflects everywhere on one’s life. When you feel you are one with the entire ocean, not a drop separated from it as it is commonly believed, you naturally become more loving and empathetic towards all bodies of water — as in others as well as yourself. This is where the beauty of Oneness lies.

A Dialectic With Myself: Practical Yin Yang Approach to Coincidentia Oppositorum is a psychophilosophical exposé in which practicality is sought from within philosophy. 

Also conjured during the same Hermit Phase in Sokhna (2020-2022) is another exposé:
Theory of Mind: Thinking About Thinking and the Benefits of Observing the Observer where the simple fact that we are not our thoughts was explored further than the initial 2014 article The Parable of the Cow.  


What Being Conscious Means by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul


M
etaphysically speaking, becoming conscious also means dropping the ego-self and embracing the Higher-Self — the real us, the soul.

Further, when one becomes conscious of their subconscious mind, they learn to be guided by some mysterious inner knowing — namely called intuition or inner gut — rather than rely solely on the confines of the conscious, rational mind and its senses. This knowledge lays beyond thoughts and words, or language in general; it cannot be taught, only discovered and realised within oneself. And the subconscious is the intuitive mind.

The revival of the intuition is one of the signs of higher consciousness. Intuition essentially means learning from within; in-sight, as inner seeing; a direct perception of truth. It is an untaught, non inferential insight and knowledge that partially comes from awareness, which makes it an essential element of mysticism discussed time and again by scientists, philosophers, and laymen alike.

Spinoza believed that intuition is the third kind of knowledge and is the highest kind attainable.



Later, Einstein said that “The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant; we have created a society that honours the servant and has forgotten the gift.”


Jung considered intuition to be one of four basic psychic functions — along with sensation, feeling, and thinking — which are capable of becoming conscious. These functions are the methods employed by humans to acquire knowledge of themselves and the surrounding world. Cognition is not restricted to one function, but rather, each function provides its own kind of knowledge.

Nevertheless, intuition still remains commonly misunderstood and hard to define. Again, because it lays beyond the apprehension of the rational mind or even orthodox science.

However, the more you follow that inner knowing, the more the results come to your favour. Be it something as simple as finding a parking spot or as a big life decision, when you consider your intuition to be the wise knowledge of the collective Soul and you trust it, it will not lead you astray.

More ‘symptoms’ of a raised consciousness include heightened creativity, finding purpose in life, Wu Wei, discarding old beliefs that are no longer useful, the ability to chose certain thoughts over others and taming “The monkeys”, the ability to enjoy each and every moment — the Here and Now. 


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One could go on forever talking about the subject, but this is not my initial intention. What is shared herein is only a minute portion of what is there to be written about the causes and effects of an awakening. 

I attempted to somewhat briefly show how being — and becoming — conscious is beneficial to you, and inevitably to the rest of us, to the world, and to the universe. And how that applies to our everyday lives. The lengthy, dense material shall be left for the book.

Remember that a single bubblegum can change the course of history. We are not just all in this together, we are This. Stay conscious. 




“Self-observation brings man to the realization of the necessity of self-change. And in observing himself a man notices that self-observation itself brings about certain changes in his inner processes. He begins to understand that self-observation is an instrument of self-change, a means of awakening.”
— George Gurdjieff



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Friday, 28 November 2014

On Love and Attachment



On Love and Attachment by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul


Confusing attachment with love is quite a common mistake. There is a fine line between both, yet one could argue that they are complete opposites. The following is a brief exploration of the difference between the two.


Love is a state of being which leaves one constantly intoxicated. In its true sense, love is all-inclusive. It is selfless, accepting, and it is about empathy, compassion, gratitude, and appreciation. True love is unconditional; and unconditional love is not with anybody or anything in particular, but rather, it is with Everybody and Everything. Such vibrational frequency, this mindset, essentially starts from within, as in loving oneself, then it is reflected outwards — shining out like sunbeams. Love is freely, willingly, unapologetically given out without expectation, for it is neither personal nor impersonal. It is a generous expression of the Higher Self, thus it is pure. Love is the Tao.

Conversely, attachment is exclusive. It is limiting; it is demanding; it breeds fear, pain of loss, and a sense of obsession and possession, which naturally leads to dependence, expectations, boundaries. Attachment is about control. It’s about binding oneself to someone, or something; identifying with them or it — forgetting your own individuality in the process. Attachment is an expression of the ego, it thus brings upon foolish traits such as envy, pride, and jealousy.

Codependency: What Being Addicted to Someone Means further discusses attachments in relationships. And The Significance of Letting Go is another piece about attachment in details and how to overcome it. Because, “Let go or be dragged.”



Now, let us say you see a beautiful flower in a garden nearby your house. Love means you want the flower to grow and blossom and be in the best possible shape and form, because that is the initial reason why you love and appreciate it. So, you leave your home everyday to walk to the garden and water the flower. You keep an eye on it and shower it with care and attention so its beauty remains. You exert an effort.

Attachment means selfishly picking the flower to put it in a vase at home, so that only you can enjoy it. It is about wanting to control things ― or people ― by taking away their freedom. But there is no true will to exert much effort here. You see the difference? 

The same can be said about feeding or playing with street free-ranging dogs or cats, spending time with them in general without the need to take them home or to own them. This, I came to experience myself when later relocating to Dahab in Sinai. 


On Love and Attachment by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul
The ultimate time to bond with the playful area doggos in 
Dahab is during the sunrise
 

As such, once the distinction between love and attachment is made clear, you will see that it is rather natural to admire without desire; to find some people interestingly appealing without actually ‘liking’ or “falling in love” with them. In other words, beyond romance or sexual attraction. When you love life and humanity, the appeal may solely be for the eyes or the mind as it doesn’t necessarily have to be for the heart as well. There is a good reason why Ancient Greeks had eight different types of love along with distinct words to describe each.

Unlike attachment, love transcends the physical separation. Therefore it is of spiritual essence. Attachment is a condition which can turn into a disorder. Love is a state of being, a mindset which can turn your life around.
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Tuesday, 12 August 2014

Why We Should Not Fear Death



Why We Should Not Fear Death by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul
“A Short Tour and Farewell” by Raymond Douillet


“We’re all just walking each other home.”

For many of us the concept of death as we know it remains an illusion. Yet fearing death can control people’s lives and renders them barely alive. The truth is, we’ve been dying since the day we were born. We’ve actually been ‘dead’ for millions of years and never minded it, and most of us don’t even remember; and we’ll be ‘dead’ for some other millions and we still won’t mind it. There is absolutely no convincing reason to fear that next adventure into the unknown. For where we are now is just a ride ― as Ram Dass among others reminds us with the above words.


Essentially, there is to be no separation between life and death. They do not oppose each other as commonly perceived; both, in fact, are complementary. And that is one of the few seeming paradoxes of our mighty Universe. Unfortunately, it is not we are taught as children. Through the established institutions ― religions and governments ― we are made to believe that death is a dreaded enemy, a sort of wicked end punishment to be afraid of. If you do not agree with the stories and opinions we believe in, then you will die and go to hell to eternally suffer on the hands of burning ghouls from one side; and if you don’t submit to our powers, we’ll imprison or kill you with our guns from the other. 

To avoid such horrible fate, one is required to conform to the status quo by becoming obedient, submissive, and oftentimes even unquestioning. It is a mere control game. When irrational fear is induced people become controllable. That is how fearing death came to being.


Now since the topic is part of my upcoming book and I have some things to share, let me briefly propose why death may not be as terminal as we were made to believe.


Fear of the unknown is one of the oldest and most neurotic and persisting kinds of fear; fear of different people, situations, phenomena, life, death, and so on. This “end of the known” fear happens to be hardwired into our brains through conditioning over thousands of years. When on the other hand it is exchanged with curiosity entire lives can be altered and metamorphosed. 
 
Scientifically speaking, you see, consciousness is derived from microtubules within brain cells, the neurons. When we we pronounced ‘dead’, the heart stops beating, the blood stops flowing and the atoms come undone. However, the energy, or the consciousness within our neurons, isn’t dead with us, but it stays ‘alive’.

Consciousness does not vanish ― only transmuted beyond time and space. Simply because when energy leaves something it does not cease to exist. In our case, it just goes to a spot that usually us humans cannot reach; some may call it the spirit realm. So even though it will be our physical time to depart this fleeting earthly life, our consciousness seems to live on. It may live on through the art, ideas, and creations we leave behind, rendering us somewhat timeless and immortal.     
 

For the curious ones, research the bizarre phenomenon of Children With Past Life Memories as it may shed some light on how consciousness may not die, as disappear.

On a parallel note, and since we are herein delving into the topic of death, Out-of-Body Experience and Ego Death on a “Heroic Dose” of Mushrooms is another piece about a different kind of death. One which can be considered a sort of an induction and introduction to our actual physical departure whenever it shall take place.  


Socrates on Death - Why We Should Not Fear Death by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul

Metaphysically speaking, through the soul’s transition from what we call life to what we call death, we shall be scattered back into the cosmos as stardust we once were. Possibly visiting far away planets, or inhabiting different entities, or even reincarnating in earthly bodies in some way, shape, or form..

Or, perhaps if we have completed our mission through our last life on Earth, by learning the intended lessons and/or by working on ourselves, we may ascend to other realms and become masters or guides, or even avatars and demigods. The end is thereby metamorphosed into a beginning... of into a new unknown mode of existence ― or nonexistence. Forever recycled, again and again and again. How poetic is that, huh. But truly, who knows? And not knowing should be perfectly fine. Simply because uncertainty is indeed part of life and should be fully accepted. For the unknown shall always exist. This makes certainty yet another illusion.

As such, beware of those who dogmatically claim to know that which happens following death. Whether good or bad, heaven or hell, blinding belief systems are more often than not nothing but B.S. ― as Robert Anton Wilson would put it. 

Another illuminated spirit that is Mark Twain once said: “The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.” How true that is.

In actuality, we are literally surrounded by an infinite number of possibilities and probabilities. And the thing is, again, we will not mind the act of being ‘dead’, the possible nothingness ― which in a way is also everything. So why worry about it now and live a limited life as we waste it away like that? As we have established, the unknown will always exist. Thus fearing it remains a futile, perfectly useless waste of time, energy, and life. We cannot truly savour the beauty of life or love when fear is our dominant vibrational energy. Never, my friend, can we live a full eventful life while fearing its end.

That said, in case there are intended lessons, not fearing death seems to be one of the most fundamental ones. This act of overcoming our own fears is through which we get to know what our inner core is made of. We get to know that we are not just a body, but rather, we are part of a certain infinite and immortal consciousness that had survived for millennia and will likely keep surviving for aeons ahead. We are IT.


At the very end, beyond all pretty-sounding words, magical beliefs, poetic assumptions, conceptual fantasies, outdated superstitions, and psychophilosophical spirituality, the possibility that we may go to bed one night to never, ever, wake up ought to entice us to enjoy life to the fullest. As simple and as real as that. For our departure from this physical existence is one of the rare certainties which we essentially know for sure. Change is truly the sole persistent constant. It is what there is and all there is. The past is gone, the future is unknown, and in-between, life and death are intertwined.

The one thing we can therefore do is enjoy the present moment
― Here and Now. Live it to the fullest, make it count. A way to help us do so is to connect with Mother Nature, to build a lasting relationship with it. Because we ARE Nature. It is where we come from and where we shall return to. We only seem to temporarily forget it due to the distractions of life. To know nature is to know thyself as to know thyself is to know nature. The more understanding, the less fear.

The sobering realisation of the inevitability of our own mortality is the catalyst for spiritual awakening.
Love Life and embrace it. Fear not death but anticipate it. For Change Is The Only Constant.


When your day comes and the Angel of Death descends upon you, He may stare at your soul and ask you a single question: Have you truly, fully, unapologetically lived or have you been dead for moons — like so many before and after you? As you take your last terrestrial breath, what do you reckon would be your answer?







 
 
 
 
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