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Wednesday, 2 May 2018

Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Evolution



Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Evolution by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul

Following three years in Canada then roaming around the U.S for a while, I arrived to Venice Beach in Los Angeles early 2014. The tropical weather was something I had been dearly missing. Being by the beach in general was another.

One of my first Sundays I was cruising around by the Venice Boardwalk when I saw — and heard — a big group of people on the beach playing music. Like a moth to a flame, my curiosity naturally led me towards them to get a closer look. What I found was mainly drummers in all sorts and shapes and colours just jamming around while forming a circle. In the middle, people were dancing to the beats and having a chilling time. This was my first encounter with Venice Beach Drum Circle, which I did not know anything about before then.

Having been always a drummer, though without a tribe, I started going every Sunday to this magical gathering — then also Saturday. Even before buying a djembe, I was just taking pictures and using others’ drums. After a while I felt more at ease and got to know many lovely folks from there. Eventually, I wrote an article titled: How Scary the Power of the People is, in which I was expressing my frustration caused by the heavy presence of cops and their vehicles on the beach by the Drum Circle. It was published on Conscious Life News. 



Note that in 2014 my own realty tunnel was filled with remnants of a hijacked Egyptian Revolution. So my views, thoughts, and feelings about “the establishment” were still bias in a certain way as I was lumping it all together. Not that I turned pro-establishment now, but my views are more balanced as I taught myself how to perceive both sides of any equation.

The following is a short excerpt from said article: 




“They are afraid from us, not the other way round. We the people. The long-haired freaks, the peaceful warriors, the colourful weirdos, the nonconformist rads, the purple bonkers and the ballistic unicorns, the tie-dyed ones who dare to be different. We individualistic souls make them uncomfortable. That I knew for a while but the fear bit is what struck me yesterday. Their weapons cannot protect them against united people who are armed only with their smiles and cameras, and they know that. 

We’ve seen it happen all over the world in revolutions and uprisings throughout history. And that’s why they enforce laws to prevent citizens of the Earth from joyfully gathering, drumming and dancing on the beach after sunset! How absurd that is when you think about it. Why should that be anywhere near illegal? We actually come from generations of tribal nomads, this is natural to us. But I tell you why. It’s to control people, because when united they become an unstoppable force. And the establishment knows that.
They do.”


Time at the Circle went on mainly peacefully until an officer named Roberts came into the scene. He was a cool guy and we bonded pretty well. This inspired a series of four articles including this latest one: Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Officer Roberts, Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: The Coke Prank, and Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Sergeant Pepper.

Slowly becoming a part of that monumental gathering, more creativity came along with photo-video articles like A Year at the Venice Beach Drum Circle in Photos & Videos (2014-’15), Another Year at the Venice Beach Drum Circle in Photos & Videos (2016-’17), and the final one, One More Year at the Venice Beach Drum Circle in Photos & Videos (2017-’18).

After all this connection, things went relatively smooth between ‘us’ and ‘them’.


Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Evolution by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul
With the cool officer Roberts in 2016

Now fast-forwarding to some months back towards the end of 2017. 


By the end of the Drum Circle one Saturday I was approached by two officers on foot, informing me that we have to wrap it up as it was past sunset. I joked with the 20-something year old petite officer by telling her that I didn’t recognise them without their big cruisers, loud sirens, and blinking lights. ⠀⠀⠀⠀
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The following week the sun went down yet no police showed up. So we kept going. The one after, it was the same story. It felt so natural that mature adults can stop drumming on a public beach whenever they wish rather than having to listen to a source of authority. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Nevertheless, the sudden disappearance of the LAPD got me curious, so I asked around. And this is what I found out. ⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Apparently, the cops ran over a woman lying on the beach in broad daylight — again! Then they got sued for it. So as a consequences their big toys were taken away from them; for now, they are not allowed to drive around on the sand. This is most probably why they never came back on foot to stop us since that first time. Now the drum circle keeps going till people just willingly leave. As it should be. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀


Another six-month fast-forward brings us to last Saturday — which is usually smaller and less noisy than Sunday. After a long hiatus, two cops, both in their mid 20s, came visiting us. Not in their vehicles, nor on foot, but in a golf cart. The first thing they did is give a ticket to some guy for having a beer in hands, and outsider sitting on the outskirts of the circle,

Their sudden appearance after MIA for all this time, especially that the first thing they did was ticketing that man, wasn’t welcomed well by many. While some of us kept watching in silence or ignoring what was going on altogether, a few shouted at the cops a couple of times. Nothing aggressive or rude; just “Fine, give him a ticket then you can leave.” Just passive aggressive. 

This was all happening about 10 minutes after I arrived. But even for me, having cops around wasn’t that perfect time to start drumming or getting into the zone. I then took this time to go around the circle and socialise with different brothers and sisters.

After the ticket, the cops went around and positioned themselves to have the sun in their backs while facing us — as seen in the featured photo. 

Eventually I did begin playing, yet still kept wondering when the cops will leave, almost subconsciously. Though I tried not to show it because the rest of the circle can easily pick up on that energy. That would be an addition to their initial discomfort I could already sense just by looking at their faces and body languages. 



What I did, however, was take a break after ten minutes through — much faster than the usual break which can take place after 40-60 minutes of constant playing. I then took another tour after jokingly telling a couple of unhappy drummers that I’ll go talk to the cops and tell them to leave. 



“No man! Why?” was their anxious response, before smiling mischievously so they get that it’s a Ha-Ha. Well, maybe half a Ha-Ha.

After snapping a few photos around I headed towards the golf cart and took a couple of shots of the cops. Then I went closer to say hello. “I hope you guys are enjoying the view. How is officer Roberts, is he still around here? He’s a friend but I haven’t seen him in a while.



“Not very much here, he moved to PK2 — or some other lingo — so he doesn’t really come here. I assumed that they meant about his promotion.

Both officers had young, gentle faces and could not be more than 25. When I told them that I share my photos on Instagram and tag #LAPD, they asked if they could see the ones I took. I did show them, adding that I do a bit of editing and they will find it on IG.

Eventually I introduced myself and shook hands with both before bidding them farewell. Unfortunately, though, I forgot their names.

When I turned around after this brief encounter I found B, one of the drummers who wasn’t too pleased of the random visit, filming the whole encounter. I think he took my words for real and followed me with the camera as I talked to them — possibly as a way to protect me.

As we moved further back towards the circle, T had that “What just happened?” kind of perplexed look. So I once again mischievously smiled and told him:

“Because they will leave in a few minutes. Watch and learn. The magic of kindness and openness!”

He smiled, yet I do not think he thought I was too serious.

A couple of minutes through as I went back to my chair, another drummer sitting right by came closer to ask: “I’m curious to know what did you tell them.”



Well, I introduced myself, took a few photos, and sent my regards to officer Roberts. You know, simply being myself. And they will leave shortly. They have other more important things to do than watch a bunch of Hippies having fun at a drum circle.

Haha. I can’t help it sometimes. I’m a 48-year-old war veteran who doesn’t feel like he needs to be policed, especially when I’m trying to have a good, clean time,” B went on. 

“I hear you, Brother. One thing I remember from a John Lennon quote is: “The only thing they [the establishment] don’t know how to handle is non-violence and humour.” So when you shower them with openness and authenticity things just flow from then on. One way to refer to the ability to read the room and sense the vibe is Emotional Intelligence.”

Before finishing our chat, we both looked ahead to find the cops evacuating the area in their little vehicle and never came back. Adios, amigos.

“You see?”

Bedazzled and smiling happily, the guys then looked at me like I am some kind of wizard, while the circle went on to its natural peaceful state. Ta-Da.


Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Evolution by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul
We can’t blame the officer for taking photos or videos because we are quite
the colourful and sensational scene — July 2016

Now to reflecting upon this latest encounter. The transition from the tension and passive aggressive energy I picked up when first arriving to the Circle four years back, to attempting to connect “us” with “them” on a more intimate level, to succeeding in doing so to a considerable degree, I can only think of the word “Evolution”.

All I could see this time is two young docile men doing their job: Ticketing the guy who was drinking in public first. Then deciding to watch us Hippies having a good time for fifteen minutes. Perhaps as a break from a long — likely boring — working day. This actually wasn’t a first, as I’ve seen it many times before when the Circle is so absolutely lit and the officers take their phones out of their pockets to start filming us from afar, as shown in the above photo. After all, we are something to see, a phenomenon, a true Venice Beach tourist attraction.

That said, I did not sense those two officers were there to monitor us as it used to happen back then, or stir any kind of trouble. Neither did I consider them any kind of threat. In fact they were actually located pretty far, just enjoying the scenery, or so I felt.

As such, there is absolutely no good reason to treat them anything other than kindly, respectfully, and more importantly humanly. As I mentioned before, one may not agree with the establishment, the system, politics, lawmakers, but the officers themselves are simply humans, just like me, just like you. Some are simply cooler than others, just like the rest of us.


Love one another. It is The Way.



ALSO VIEW:

Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Officer Roberts

Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: The Coke Prank

Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Sergeant Pepper










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Thursday, 2 July 2015

Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Sergeant Pepper



Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Sergeant Pepper by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul

After the Drum Circle last Sunday I went to sit by the boardwalk for a bit. At some point, I went to the bathroom and left the drum and the chair with a sweet girl, Kat. I could hear her from far playing on it.

Then I came back and I was about to go home when an overweight 40-something female officer came by, signalling for Kat to go closer. The girl got up and headed towards her, before the officer asked her to get my drum too.



“Hey! This is mine,” I said. 



“You shouldn't leave it like that.

What?! I was in the bathroom and left my chair and drum.



Well, that’s your responsibility, why didn’t you take it with you?



Why should I take my chair and my drum into the toilet if I can leave it here?

Hm, it’s like a knife. If you left your knife with someone who committed a crime, it’s your responsibility.




Uh, are you comparing a drum to a knife, seriously?”




This is when one of the homeless folks by the boardwalk shouted:

“You can’t take his drum.”



“Well, watch me and see if I can,” she said...or something juvenile like that



.


She took the girl and went to the car while her partner took the drum and put it on top of the trunk. I stood there on the side watching in disbelief. A minute later, I headed towards her and said:

“Ma'am, may I have a word with you please. 



When I finish my investigation.


OK, take all the time you want.” I reassured her.





Five minutes later, we locked eyes and I went towards her again.

“


Look officer,”
 trying to eye her name.

“It’s sergeant.

Look, sergeant, I’m a writer and I reside five minutes away from here. I come to the Drum Circle every weekend and I’m a friend of officer Roberts. I think you’re making a big deal out of nothing. This is a very expensive drum and it’s my private property. 




You should learn not to leave it like that. You come pick it up tomorrow from the station. Now stay back please
,” she replied. 

Then, she stuttered for a little bit while not looking me straight in the eyes and carried on: “Honestly, it’s about you coming here after the drum circle is over.”



Aha. I sensed her slight nervousness. It appears that they were not happy I was mingling with the homeless at this time of the night. It also appears that they had no good reason to arrest me so they flexed their muscles on the young girl.

“Look, I don’t want to write an article about this. But why are being so hard?
 It’s been a year that I’m here, trying to befriend officers and talking openly with them. That's is not right. This is art, this is music. It is not a crime. The problem you have with drumming is the noise and the neighbours, but this is one drum, so…” I defiantly told her in front of her three subordinates.  



During this time, one of the other officer was still checking the IDs of Kat and some black guy, one of the vendors. 


A couple of minutes later and more backup was there. A police car came by and it’s none other than officer Roberts and a colleague. We waived to each other as a brief hello before he went down to do his job. We didn’t further communicate just not to complicate things since sergeant “Pepper” was there. 




Apparently Kat had a previous warrant and that’s why they took her inside the car.

Another five minutes as I was watching the whole scene, the sergeant opened the trunk of the car, got the drum, and and gave it back to me. 



“Ah, thank you,” I said.



I wonder if that was for not wanting me to write “an article” or because I’m a friend of officer Roberts. Or, perhaps, because she thought it over and realized that she cannot do this — that it is unconstitutional.


I then went towards to the police car where Kat was to check up on her. “Be kind to her please,” I told the few officers standing on the perimeter.

“Yeah, now you took your drum, I don’t want to see that drum around here,” the sergeant said.

“

Well, I live here,” I replied with a cold smile.

Then one of the subordinates standing behind, a short skinny officer in his early 20s said:

“Now you took the drum you should be happy she’s not taking it with the girl.” 



Sometimes it’s best to shut up. This was one of those moments. My usual reply was going to be something like the following: And do you feel better about yourself now that you’ve told me this sentence? 




Ah, the deep-rooted complexes.


I guess the highlight of the story is being told by a sergeant in the LAPD — a mature adult — that a drum is as dangerous as a knife. You really can't make this stuff up.

Some people are in dire need of more love in their lives. 


Check the other articles in the series: Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: The Coke Prank, Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Officer Roberts, and
Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Evolution.




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Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: The Coke Prank

Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Officer Roberts

Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Evolution



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Friday, 15 May 2015

Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Officer Roberts



Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Officer Roberts by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul


Following the first article in the Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’ series, The Coke Prank, here is the second about an actual friendship that developed between an LAPD officer and myself. 


At some point last Saturday at the Venice Beach Drum Circle I saw a cop coming down from his car. He moved around for a bit, asking a few drummers if they were fine. Usually while drumming my eyes are closed, however, somehow I can see what’s going on around. I subtly smiled, though not to him directly, before I saw him return to his vehicle.

This caught my attention as it was not a usual sight in Venice Beach or at the Drum Circle. But I didn’t know what it was about. Plus, the copper was a new face in the area, so I guess that drew my attention even more.

Another hour, I could see through the corner of my eye two police vehicles encircling us. It didn’t seem like a normal check, it was more like they were screening us. That’s because the officers in both cars were talking, then each cars took a cruise around us, then they met further to talk again. Something was happening.

This Saturday, we decided to stop drumming maybe 15 minutes before the sunset. I even told the guys jokingly that we really don’t have to wait till the very last minute to do so every time. It’s OK to stop by ourselves and not only when they cops come to tell us so.



As we were wrapping, one police car approached us and both officers came down and headed towards us. Strange. Why are they here if we’re done before the sunset? One of them was the new one I saw earlier checking up on the guys.

Both men came closer, but the new one led the conversation. Officer Roberts is a white man in his mid-late 20s, tall with blond hair, and has a warm, pleasant face your long-time neighbour would have.

“Hey guys, I know you are the ones in charge, as you are the drummers and people come to see you play, so we’re trying to work something out here. We want your cooperation on Sundays to stop the circle when the sun goes down and the cops come. I really like that you guys have fun here, it’s good for Venice and the tourists love it. But you know what happened a few days ago, so these days security is going to be tight.”

He meant the shooting of an unarmed 29-year-old Venice man, Brendon K. Glenn, by the police a few days prior.


This is when a couple of drummers intervened, mentioning Brendon whom they knew. I only recognised him later when I saw his pic. Officer Roberts showed his sympathy and said that the case is still being investigated. He also said that they don't know much details and there is some kind of obscurity around the whole incident. 

According to the L.A Times, the security video has not been publicly released. So he may be right. It’s worth noting that this is the second fatal shooting by the Los Angeles Police Department of an unarmed, homeless black man in just over two months. So the tension between the ‘us’ and ‘them’ may be on the rise these days. Hence, they are asking us to cooperate. Not that I suddenly became a homeless black man myself, but I know you get my gist in a jiffy. 

“Tomorrow they will be more police cars around the circle so I though I would come talk to you guys,” he resumed.



Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Officer Roberts by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul
Would Brendon Glenn ‘Dizzle’ ever be the last unarmed
homeless man of colour to be shot by
the LAPD? Photo taken on Saturday, May 16 on the Boardwalk.

By that time, I was already captivated by the openness of the man and the way he approached us. After all, most cops, as well as most people, still think in terms of ‘us’ and ‘them’ — and the shootings that keep happening are certainly not helping.

For me personally, knowing that we are all essentially One, I want to transcend this ‘us’ and ‘them’ ideology. I really do. So whenever I see an opportunity I jump right in. The system may be full of holes, but down deep inside, behind labels and uniform, they are human beings... just like you and me.

Other than The Coke Prank about another cool colleague of officer Roberts, Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Sergeant Pepper and the latest Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Evolution followed 
 
So first off, I thanked the man for being who he is and for coming right there in the open to explain the situation to us. Then I introduced myself with my first name, saying that I’m a writer who lives in the area. I proceeded by agreeing with him that the outsiders, who usually come on Sundays, are the ones who sometimes tend to ruin it for everyone else.

Further proving the point, I told him that my own phone was stolen from the circle on that last Sunday. I also told him that when first moving to the area last year, I was not particularly happy with the cops’ heavy presence around the Drum Circle.

A fellow drummer then intervened, mentioning that the shooting had nothing to do with the Circle as some people believe. Office Roberts agreed, but said that ‘They’ lump the whole thing together when it comes to Venice Beach, the Drum Circle, and violence.

Hm. But how is that fair, I wonder.  


Freddy, another fellow drummer told officer Roberts: “OK, if we cooperate can you leave us regather by the water when everyone leaves, just a few of us?”

The man said he cannot promise now but he’ll definitely talk to his superior. We explained that sometimes one of the officers allows it, then another comes later to say that we have to leave. No communication between them is what creates the issue. We said that they had told us multiple times that personally they don’t have a problem but it's the neighbours who complain from the noise; therefore the further we go towards the water, it should be OK.

After all, we all know it’s not illegal. And according to some of my new buddies who have been attending the Drum Circle for more than 35 years, to stop when the sun goes down is a relatively new thing. Apparently they used to play till 2 am not so long ago. So.

Again, the fine officer promised to help out, explaining that his superior is in one of the vehicle further away watching us. “They know I like talking to people, so they sent me here to talk to you guys,” he said.

“We need more people like you; we are all humans,” I responded. 

“Thank you. OK then see you tomorrow.

Thank YOU. Bye.”


I have to say I was quite impressed by the manners of the man. Many police officers have ego problems so they don’t talk or communicate eye to eye. They somehow believe that they are in power and totally forget that initially they are public servants who are here to protect and serve. Others may be shy.

Luckily, though, not all of them are like that and every now and then we bump into cool, rational, humane ones like officer Roberts. 



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A little later, a few drummers and I gathered by the patio on the boardwalk and this was when I saw the man again. I then remembered that I wanted to let his colleague know about the Coke Prank article I had written about her. I thought maybe also I could get her name to add it. So, I went towards him, briefly telling him the story and giving him and his partner the name of the article, the name of the blog, and my full name.

When the subject of the recent shooting of Brendon Glenn was brought up again, I recall him telling me that in every profession there are the good and the bad. I agreed. However, I was about to say that when the burger flipper, or the janitor or the sales exec mess up, people do not die in the process. Though I did not, perhaps because I felt it’s too common sense; perhaps because I was happy to talk to the man and didn’t want to add any awkwardness.

We chatted for another 10 minutes then we parted ways. I believe this may be the longest time I have spoken to a single American cop.

For a moment afterwards I felt weird giving my info like that to the authorities. And then I reminded myself that they are humans being who go online and check blogs and stuff. I want them to know that some of us appreciate them for who they are. I really hope they get to read these lines.

Besides, I am who I am. So getting to know that I’m an Eclectic Sapiosexual Philomath Logoleptic Lexophile Bohemian Psychonaut should be completely fine. Ha.



As I was heading to my bike, I saw two guys whom I saw talking to officer Roberts earlier during the circle. One was drinking and the other was smoking but was totally wasted.

“Did you get a ticket?” I asked the drinking one.

“The officer told me, give me the bottle and I won’t ticket you.

Yeah, he seems like a good guy.

Yeah, officer Roberts
,” he smilingly said.  


I was quite surprised that the homeless man already knew his name. I had already decided that I was going to write about the whole thing so I eyed his name tag twice. But for the drunk guy to retain the name of the new officer, he must have been equally impressed.

“He gave me a ticket for smoking, but I was hslnkdhdshjfhsvdklnkD @#$%^!&*()j,” the other one who’s always wasted mumbled incoherently.

I think you out of all people deserve it, dude.

“Goodnight, Brothers.”



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On Sunday, I went late to the Drum Circle. At some point, officer Roberts came by to check the area, we locked eyes and he headed towards me to say ‘Hi, Omar’. We shook hands and I went back to drumming. Of course some people were looking at me, not really understanding what they had just witnessed. One of ‘us’ and one of ‘them’ amicably greeting each other. 

An outsider I have never met before even came to inquire:

“What’s that about?”

I explained to him that we spoke yesterday about wanting to wrap the circle seamlessly as soon as the sun goes down since we want to keep things on the down low these days because of what had happened.

“Why, bro? But now...  .” He sounded like he was objecting and started to rant. 

This is when I didn’t feel the need to even listen to what this stranger dude had to say. I closed my eyes and went back to the drumming world. 

Again on Sunday, I stopped playing before the time was up. Before leaving I thought I would tell officer Roberts and say goodbye. He was standing right there with a partner. I shook hands and said see you next week. To my surprise, however, he said he won’t be here and that he’ll be off to Chicago.

Oh well, the good ones always leave.

“We need more of you,” I told him again as we bid farewell.


You see, good guys are good guys, anywhere. I could see it after a couple of interactions, the homeless man could also see it. And as I mentioned in the Coke Prank article, since most of the times I’m against what cops do and how they behave, when I encounter some of them acting so differently I feel compelled to let them, and you, know. 


All We Are Saying Is Give Peace A Chance.


More please.


Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Officer Roberts by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul
Give Peace a Chance with one eclectic mix posing for my camera at the VBDC: 
Cool Steve Engel is a former Assistant Professor of Aerospace Engineering who goes to Burning Man, Officer Roberts, then Kady (R), and Bo (L)



EDIT [Sunday 7 June 2016]:


Today at the circle, officer Roberts and I met again and said ‘Hi’. He asked if I have Twitter so I can share the article with the LAPD 911 account, since they have 50K followers which will generate more views. He even got his phone out of his pocket to show me their page.

I told him that I don’t but I can share it with them on Facebook, and thanked him for the thought. He really seems to be a genuinely nice guy.

“So did you like the article?” I asked.

“Yes I did, I read it all. My mom loved it.

How splendid.”

I hope she’s proud of her son.

We then said goodbye and parted ways. Of course, onlookers were once again baffled by what just happened. As for myself, I like knowing that a man like him is in the force. I also like to have him as a new friend. Glad to have written this article.



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EDIT [JULY 2016]:


One afternoon, I was walking along the Venice Boardwalk with my aunt and cousin. The California weather was spectacular, and it was their first time visiting the area in years. As we strolled, I was casually explaining to them how Venice Beach had somehow become my second home — a place where I now walked around exchanging hellos left and right, precisely as if I were navigating the familiar streets of Zamalek back in Cairo.

Right as the sentence left my mouth, an LAPD cruiser started crawling toward us. The blazing Pacific sun was dead in my eyes, blinding me completely until the vehicle pulled up right beside our group.

“Hey, Omar!,” a voice called out from inside.

I squinted. “Hey, Brother!”

The fog cleared. It was Officer Roberts — the cool cop I had written an article about some time back; which I later found out his mother had absolutely loved reading.

Turning to my family, I introduced him: “This is Officer Roberts. The cool buddy I wrote that article about, which his mother loved reading.

I haven’t seen you down by the drum circle lately, man.”

“Yeah, I’m cruising more on the perimeter these days,” Roberts replied while leaning out the window. “But I’ll be there next Sunday. And I actually want to talk to you about something that’s been bothering me there,” he told me.

“Sure, mate,” I said, my curiosity instantly piqued.


As we wrapped up and I wished him a safe shift, he looked directly at my aunt and cousin and with total sincerity said, “You’ve got an awesome nephew-slash-cousin here.”

Oooh. Talk about immaculate timing.

Both women seemed elated, their faces lighting up with massive smiles — especially my 75-year-old aunt, who beamed with what appeared like pride.

Once the cruiser rolled away, I turned to them and pointed out the sheer, uncanny irony of the moment. You know you are navigating reality somewhat efficiently when, despite a lifetime of deeply entrenched anti-establishment views and writings, as well as a general organic distaste for authority and policing, the LAPD publicly validates your existence as “awesome” and actively solicits your neighbourhood mediation skills. Who would have thunk, really?! We laughed and laughed about how the reality of the matter turned out.
It was a beautifully upside-down puzzle piece of cosmic comedy.
Why? Because Coincidentia Oppositorum — the Unity of Opposites — demands that you look at both sides of the coin. Things, however, were not always this peaceful. Just a mere year earlier in the Valley of L.A, things were singing quite a different tune, as recounted in Stop-n-Search That Hippy (2014). 

Go back a bit further in Canada, and you find Banged Up Abroad — My Few Days @ The Don Jail (2011). 

Strip it back even further to 1999 England, and it’s Banged Up Abroad — A Night @ The London Police Station.

From handcuffs and steel bars to public praise and collaborative neighbourhood peacekeeping on the sand dunes. Talk about a cosmic evolution.
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Following such an unexpected encounter, the ladies and I walked a bit further, exchanging a few more casual pleasantries with the local Boardwalk vendors, before finally settling into a seaside cafe for a snack.

When Roberts and I crossed paths about ten days later, he filled me in on the issue: a lingering misunderstanding between himself and Freddy — the regular drummer and VBDC buddy mentioned above. I promised I’d look into it, and I did. A quick, grounded conversation with Freddy was all it took to clear the air. Eventually, they made peace, the friction dissolved, and the collective rhythm of the beach remained completely undisturbed.

Not long after that, Roberts disappeared from the Venice rotation. When I eventually flagged down a few officers to ask about his whereabouts, they informed me he had been promoted. I was genuinely happy for him, merrily telling his colleagues, “Well, they always take the good ones first.”

I hope his mother is still proud of him.



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This Attempting To Bridge The Gap article remains one of a four-part series that I truly enjoyed conjuring into existence.



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Also View:


Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: The Coke Prank

Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Sergeant Pepper

Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Evolution 

Losing It 𝘉𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘧𝘭𝘺 At Full Lunacy: First Burst of Anger in Over 12 Years (2026)

A Year at the Venice Beach Drum Circle in Photos (2014-’15)

Another Year at the Venice Beach Drum Circle in Photos & Videos (2016-’17)

One More Year at the Venice Beach Drum Circle in Photos & Videos (2017-’18)

Stop-n-Search That Hippy

Banged Up Abroad — My Few Days @ The Don Jail

Banged Up Abroad — A Night @ The London Police Station

Retrieving Phone — Through Tracking App — From Some Thug Who Found It

When Bullying my Sister Led to Shutting Her School Down With a Rambo Knife

The Night We Turned ‘Beast Mode’ On

The Bloke Who Thought I’m Too Much of an Alpha Male

How Drumming Changed The Way My Brain Processes Music: Underworld Live at the Hollywood Bowl

Drum Circle Etiquette — The Do’s and Don’ts

The Intertwining of Music and Sexuality ― A Djembefola’s Tale
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Saturday, 18 April 2015

Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: The Coke Prank



Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: The Coke Prank by Omar Cherif, One Lucky Soul

Today morning, I stumbled upon this 6-million-views video and instantly recognised both cops from Venice Beach. Knowing that cops usually hate pranks and rarely have any sense of humour, I found their reaction pretty cool. Others could have made it much harder on the boys.


Then later in the day, I went to the Drum Circle and when the time was up and the police cars surrounded us, I recognised the young lady copper. So I headed towards her and asked if she had seen that ‘Coke’ YouTube video. As she nodded ‘yes’, I told her that I wanted to say that what they did was really cool. 


“We’re not all assholes,” she replied with a confident smile. [*and a fun comeback too]

“Thank God,” I said while smiling back.

I felt comfortable so I went on, “Honestly, when I arrived here last year, I didn’t particularly like how cops are all over the beach. I even wrote an Article about that ― I’m a writer. But now a year later, I’m actually happy that you guys are around. Lots of outsiders come here and ruin it for us, so again, thank you for what you do.”

We chatted for another 30 seconds, smiled again, then parted ways.

I thought that since most of the times I’m against what cops do and how they behave, when I see well-composed ones who are understanding, act responsible, and can take a joke, I have to let them, and you, know.

I salute you, officer. We sure need more of you. The top YouTube comment on the video:
It’s a shame you had to prank the only cool cops ever, but it was still funny 😀.


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On a parallel note, the encounter was also a sobering reminder that one is in L.A ― the land of mighty Hollywood. Indeed, in those several years residing in Venice Beach, I came across the singer Pink solo biking casually next to me on Abbot Kinney. Another time right there, Tim Robbins was coming out of the same Abbott Pizza I was heading into. A third time it was bumping into Bill Maher one night by the Venice Canals; he seemed to be mid argument with some woman [surprise?!]. Heck, one weekend a cousin sent me a video from the Venice Beach Drum Circle... posted by Sharon Stone who was actually right there watching us Go Bananas. Yeah, Man.

Even for someone who is not fasciated by stars or celebrities, who had lived his early years in Egypt, this Hollywoodesque air still finds its way to get to you ― along with a degree of vanity and pettiness and all. It’s an intoxicating environment be living in.


You can check the lengthier next article in the series when another copper and I became actual friends: Attempting to Bridge the Gap Between ‘Us’ and ‘Them’: Officer Roberts. Also, Sergeant Pepper as well as the last one, Evolution.
                                                                                                                                                           
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